surrogacy?anyone??

Hii Estella,

It's great you have chosen for the surrogacy and your better half likewise with you. Surrogacy is a decent choice for every infertile couple. For this, you have to discover a facility that has high achievement rates and gives the treatment with lawful angles. Since the wrong choice of facility can drives you towards the issue amid or after the pregnancy. For this, you can go to the Biotexcom center in Ukraine.I am proposing you this facility in light of the fact that my companion had got the surrogacy from that center. She disclosed to me that Before beginning the procedure they take all trial of the surrogate mother and marked authoritative records with her which isn't appropriate in all nations. So on the off chance that you need you can visit that facility once and seek it will be useful after you.

 

Hi, Estella. I am really sorry to hear that you've had to go through 6 miscarriages. I had 3 myself and I know how painful it is. I would recommend you trying to not blaming yourself. I know how hard it is to do that as well, and believe me, had it not been for the suport my family, my husband and the additional therapy sessions give me, I would not be here right now telling you this. It's important for you to ground yourself to your loved ones and get all the help you need, even if you dont think you deserve it. You do. It's really great that you found a possible solution to your situation. I would recommend you looking into it yourself as much as you can before opting for it, and make sure that the decision is yours. I've only discovered surrogacy some time ago but from what Ive learnt and heard from people and medical professionals, it is not something you do out of pressure and out of expectation. It is an undertaking of the utmost seriousness, as im sure youre aware of. I hope you are successful in your journey with this. I hope this helped you in some way. Cheers!

 

I have literally same feelings now. Everyone around is getting pregnant and I feel so sad. No, I'm really happy for my friends! I just can't understand why I can't get pregnant. We were ttc for 8 years. The result was 3 miscarriages. That was really hard times for our family. And my friends are getting pregnant so easily!!! And some of them ask "kids are such a blessing! what are you waiting for? don't you want to have children?" I wanna scream after such questions! I wanna literally punch them in their faces! I will never ever ask any woman such things.

We are currently in surrogacy program. So I really hope things will become better soon. I wish you to become mom asap and finally become the happiest woman in the world!

 

Idk why but your post made me cry. These feelings are so familiar to me. I think they are close to many girls here. These thoughts don't make you a bad person. We struggle because of our infertility and some people just don't get it because they don't have it. There are so many words I wanna say to my family/friends but I can't and I won't. Some people won't understand. Some of them may be offended so it will be better if I will keep silence and sob quietly in bathroom. Though we will keep these words to ourselves but we still can share them here.

 

I think you should be very thankful for having a husband that is supporting you. I think no one else's support matters as long as your partner supports you. Try not to talk to people about your problem, as if they cared they would have thought about helping you out instead of telling you that something is wrong with you. I do not know how you managed to cope with 6 MCs. You should think about your body now, it must have become very weak by now I guess and getting all the negativity will only damage you in different ways. Biotexcom looks like a nice option for you, you should hurry up and get started with your surrogacy as soon as possible because once it gets successful you will find yourself at peace. Choose the best clinic that you can, I do not want you to get your money wasted in another failure.

 

hey there Estella! I see you've been worrying about what others have to say about you, but always remember Lions do not concern themselves with the opinion of sheeps. Just let that sink in. It's pleasant to see that you have found the strength to go for surrogacy, you see I'm going through a similar struggle.This traffic accident when I was not even part of the traffic has changed my life and not for the better. I was a healthy 24-year-old girl pregnant with my first child, I was 14 weeks in. I'm tearing up even talking about this issue.I would never even wish such a life on my biggest enemy. I'm completely infertile and I have no possibility of having a child of my own ever. I m also looking into surrogacy as IVF and IMF are out of question. So far my husband thinks its a fair try. The thing which has stuck with my head up till now is the 100% success rate due to infinite tries by the Ukraine clinic.I hope you guys find success and I want you guys to pray for me as well. take care you all and have a blessed life.

 

hey there Estella! I see you've been worrying about what others have to say about you, but always remember Lions do not concern themselves with the opinion of sheeps. Just let that sink in. It's pleasant to see that you have found the strength to go for surrogacy, you see I'm going through a similar struggle.This traffic accident when I was not even part of the traffic has changed my life and not for the better. I was a healthy 24-year-old girl pregnant with my first child, I was 14 weeks in. I'm tearing up even talking about this issue.I would never even wish such a life on my biggest enemy. I'm completely infertile and I have no possibility of having a child of my own ever. I m also looking into surrogacy as IVF and IMF are out of question. So far my husband thinks its a fair try. The thing which has stuck with my head up till now is the 100% success rate due to infinite tries by the Ukraine clinic.I hope you guys find success and I want you guys to pray for me as well. take care you all and have a blessed life.

 

hi!... not being infertile but still, couldn't be able to bear the child is quite painful to know about.All the problems now have been resolved by surrogacy.Here you don't have to carry it but a volunteer does for you.One of my friends tried it for her family extension and is very happy and contented with her decision.at the start it is confusing for every parent that what to choose what to choose from where to go but with perfect guidance by the perfect clinic you can succeed very happily.You should look all over the world for the clinics as many are out there but the best ones provide you with multilingual people, unlimited tries, accommodation facilities etc.These are the best of the bests and you get to choose your own donors as well if needed.They treat you with hospitality and much care and do not leave you alone even when the baby is born they provide you with care even afterwards.hopefully, I have helped you in some way and wish you best of luck for all the future happiness in your way.

 

hi estella. this is a great post. i am an infertile women. i didnt had a baby for 7 years after my marriage. it was hard for me to accept the fact that i can not have a baby. i was worried. but then i looked for an option on internet. i found out that there is a clinic in Ukrain that can help me. i decided to go there for surrogacy. they were professionals. and they had donor banks to. they even gave us a surrogate mother. it was not as complex as i thought. and it was affordable too. my baby boy is 2 years old now and he is healthy. i sugguest every infertile women to look forward to this option. its not the end.

 

Stay strong I am doing what you are going to do and i found so many good things about surrogacy. It is completely safe and best options. You just need some extra care and support. I am sure you will soon get best results. Best of luck.

 

Hello there. I am having some confusion but I think I will end up going for surrogacy too. I did a lot of research about this process and from my research, I found out that it is a completely safe and reliable procedure for people like us and I have found out a very nice place that provides very pocket-friendly packages. I am very happy to exist in this modern age where there are solutions to every kind of problem. I think it is a very nice way to for people like us to make their dreams come true.

 

I am sorry about your 6 unsuccessful pregnancy. Its an intense feeling of loss, I can say so because one of my very close friend experienced this. I have seen her struggling from that phase of life. She had totally lost her hope. But her husband and family always with her to support.Then they decided to get the surrogacy because the doctor due to miscarriage she is not capable of get pregnant. So that is why they decided to go for surrogacy. With the grace of God, whole process was successful.Your case might be same as her. Once you feel ready to get the surrogacy after miscarriage, consult to fertility specialist or healthcare provider. For this, you should search for the legal and trustworthy clinic in different countries in which surrogacy is not illegal.If you're healthy and feel ready, there might be no need to wait to go for treatment after miscarriage. So, be positive and stay happy. Hope this will be the good news for you. Keep faith in God. May you feel the happiness of parenthood soon.Good luck for your future.

 

Hello dear! I think you made the right thing that you came here. I have same thoughts on my mind. I'm so tired because of infertility. I know exactly how you feel. I should say this is really hard not to give up and just accept the situation. But when I think that I should accept childless life it makes me even more depressed. It seems like nothing can help and I will always be miserable. I was trying so hard to distract myself but nothing worked. I think about children 24/7. I think about my infertility, about my kidney disease, about my relationship with my husband. Even when I go out with friends or spend time with my family and relatives or watch TV or work I think about that stuff. I know exactly what you're talking about when you say you want to change how people think about you. I'm 47 and I have no children. Everyone around me had already become parents and grandparents. When I meet old friends of course the first question they ask is about children. At such moments I just want to disappear. I understand that this is not important what other people think about us. Everyone should mind their own business. We should always think about ourselves and what we think about our lives. But sometimes I just can't stop analyzing how people think about me. I am so afraid that someone will judge me or discuss me and my childless life behind my back. Recently I met one of my old friends and she was with her kids. Obviously she asked me if I have children. When I told her that I'm thinking about using the services of surrogate mother, she just smiled and told me this is too late. And then she told our common friends about my surrogacy because when I met the other friend she asked me if this is true. To be honest I was shocked. I regret it I told about my surrogacy to someone who means nothing for me and who knows nothing about my life. One part of me understands that people going to judge you no matter what. So we should do everything what we think is right for us. The other part of me feels so vulnerable. This situation made me feel depressed. I don't want people to think about me in a bad way. I feel like I want to justify myself. Why I should feel this way? Those people will never understand how I feel and why I made my choice. Despite of the whole situation I decided to keep going no matter what. Surrogacy seems a very great opportunity for us. I won't let anyone to destroy my happiness.

 

I’m so sorry you receive no support from your parents in such difficult moment of your life. It’s terrible that your family behaves in such a way. This is not your fault! It’s good you found the strength and you don't give up. You made a right thing coming here! Who can support you better than women, who know how it feels, when you can’t give birth. I was worrying that my husband will leave me for another woman, who will be able to carry children. I was feeling ashamed because I cannot give him children. Probably someone would say “Leave him! Why do you need a husband like him?” But I love my husband. And I’m sure you love yours. Men are such creatures, they think not like we do in such situation. It’s great he supports you. I should tell you that after we had surrogacy, my husband changed completely! He shows me his love all the time. He loves our son and he is so grateful, even considering the fact that there was a surrogate mother who carried and gave birth to our child. I truly believe and hope that your parents will change their behavior! By the way, have you already started your search of a clinic?