My hubby was an alcoholic. The extent at which it would cause infertility I couldn’t understand. After marrying him, he used not to take much alcohol. We got our first-born son. One year later, we decided we try our luck and get another child. No conception happened. It was an issue of blame game till I decided to seek medical attention. I saw the doctor first when he was very unaware. To my surprise, I was very healthy. Again, we tried to conceive but we couldn’t. we had to divorce for a while as we internalize who might be having the problem. For reconciliation and elimination of doubt, we decided to visit the doctor. The doctor would be the mediator through clinical tests for both of us. Specimens of cervical mucous and semen were taken for further analysis. I was gasping for breath because if I was the one who could be having the problem, I would be guilty and my husband would divorce me. I never worried. When the doctor started announcing our results to both us, I couldn’t believe. My husband couldn’t believe too. It was him who had the problem. The alcohol had interfered with his sperm development. We are now confused what we should do and I want to get my won baby and still, I don’t want to divorce him. Please advise!
