I'm in the 3rd-trimester beginning. We moved to our new home in Toronto. It is a pretty big house. I'm all alone there when my better half go to work. I really hate to be alone in my house. Sometimes the silence scares me to death. Since I'm new to this place, I have no clue about the surroundings and neighbors. My neighbors are working parents. So they might not be there during the day. All this makes me scared. Even a small sound and knock on the door makes me worried. Our home is completely secured with a good security system provided by one of the best security companies in Vancouver. Even then I'm afraid. I know that my worries and tension during this time will badly affect my baby. I don't know how it affects my baby. When I discussed this, my husband, he said that he would look for a nanny for me. But I don't like that. I don't like to be monitored by a nanny. The main reason is I don't trust them. What would I do? How will I change my fear?
What exactly are you afraid of? Buglers? The sooner you identify the source of your fears the closer you will be to dealing with them. You know shock is very dangerous during pregnancy. Do not expose your child to that. Confront your fears. You do not need anyone around the house to deal with them. If you have a security system you should be confident.
FIrst of all congrats dear! I am super happy that you are going to be a mother. It is a great feeling a presume. Especially for me, as I cannot be one myself.I can only imagine how you feel now. Oh well, lets not get to carried away I guess. We need to debate some other thing. If you would accept it, here is my opinion. You see dear to be afraid isn't that bad. Fear is what has kept our ancestors alive, it is a valuable instinct! I aggree with @Ssuezy when she says you need to find the source of your fear. Without that you will be lost. I mean how cna you fight something that you don't know what it it. Try asking yourself why all the fear? What's the cause of this whole thing. Once you find that, fighting it will be kinda easier. Wish you luck on your new house dear. God bless you and your family!
