What to do?

Discussion in 'Trying to Conceive' started by ann, May 27, 2018.

  1. ann

    ann New Member

    Hello, everyone! I need your advice.

    You know, I want to turn to IVF. I am 46 and it is the last chance for me to become a mother. I really want to make my family full and big. My spouse wants it too. But I am a little afraid of the procedure. So your information is so helpful not only for me! I am sure that it is needed by the other women too. Thanks for sharing it. It was very difficult decision for me. Hope that it will be worth of it. Of course I try to believe in myself. Choosing the clinic is very responsible and serious step. I know it. And I know that I should to start with it. I hope that my first attempt will be successful. I know that it depends on doctors and your health. Say, what clinic it is better to choose? How to make the right decision? Is it worth it to visit different clinics? I know that IVF programs are all the same in different clinics, so I am going to pass tests not in one of them. Now I try to collect as much information as I can about different clinics in the world. I want to do all my best to achieve my goal so this period is the most important. So, maybe you can tell me something useful? Maybe something about clinics? maybe there is something I should know about the procedure in general? Hope you will help me. Thanks.
     
  2. tina

    tina New Member

    Hello!

    You know, I will be very glad to help you. First of all, I want to say, that the clinic I turned to recommended me my friend. But before that I visited several clinics. You know, they weren’t bad. But their prices were pretty big too. First we wanted to turn to two of those clinics. But them a friend of my spouse told us his story. His family had the same problem as we are. They decided to turn to a Ukrainian clinic. His wife became a mother after the first try. He said, that they liked everything about this clinic. So my spouse said that we should try to turn to it too. We were thinking about it for some time and decided to try. We turned to BioTexCom. When were came there, we questioned the doctors about all the points we needed to know. We find out that the clinic isn’t so old. But now it is considered to be one of the best. The percentage of success is very high. So I pass some tests. After that the specialists told me that I the results are very good and we can try to begin the process. I told to my husband. He supported me and said that this clinic much better than those we turned to. I may say that the doctors are great specialists. They are very friendly and always ready to help. The conditions are good enough too. As for the prices, I may say that they are not so high as in the other clinics. IVF is pretty expensive procedure, but some clinics make it even more expensive. I think that you may turn to it. Maybe you will like it too. Hope that you will be fine. Good luck!
     
  3. ann

    ann New Member

    Thank you for the information. I will definitely think about it. I have heard about this clinic before. They say that it is as good as the other clinics in Europe. Maybe I should speak to the doctors. Thank you for sharing important information! I also hope that everything will be fine.
     
  4. tina

    tina New Member

    You are always welcome! I am really glad that my story can help people. Hope that it is will be useful for you. I believe you will be fine! Remember, that if the first attempt will be unsuccessful, don’t try to give up. Believe that everything will be fine. Then your dream will come true. Good luck!
     
  5. Fiercequeen

    Fiercequeen Moderator

    IVF is a procedure that is changing the way medicine works as a whole... It has given a pathway to things that we never thought were possible. However this doesn't matter much for a patient who needs IVF. For you what matter is that IVF works for you. I can understand that much. and don't worry I am sure that it will work for you. You see after a certain age IVF is better than the good ol' way! It has a higher chance of success. Or at least some studies claim that. You might not succeed with the first attempt! Don't let that get in the way! You will eventually make it dear. God bless you! Keep fighting! I am doing my IVF too right now... I am doing it Ukraine. If you want to talk more I am here. Just send me a DM!
     
  6. Krystal

    Krystal New Member

    Hello OP! I think IVF is a great option. I had it last year and I used donor eggs. I've got pregnant from the first attempt. Now I'm happy mother after many years of infertility. I'll try to answer your questions, basing on my own experience. First of all I should say when I first read about a clinic we used I was 90% sure we won't go there. The country has unstable situation, problems with economics, etc. Also it's far away from our home. I had no clue how good(or bad) its medicine is. So I automatically crossed it from our list. My husband and I continued our search. I was surprised because I was facing reviews about it all the time. Most of them were positive. I sent private messages to a couple of women who used it. We discussed the clinic, all pros and cons. I really liked that the clinic has lower price, uses fresh eggs and provides with all needs which are necessary for foreign clients. Also I googled this clinic and it turned out it has high success rates and it takes first places in international rankings of clinics all over the world. We sent them an email. They responded very quickly and appointment date of our first meeting with their doctor. I want to advise everyone out there, who is looking for a fertility clinic, not to jump to conclusions too fast. Option which may seem not suitable at all can turn out to be the best one for you.

    Price for IVF depends on so many things. If you're planning to go abroad, you should consider ticket expenses, housing, food, etc. Second of all is your friend going to use an agency or a clinic(without intermediaries)? Agencies take fees, which sometimes can be pretty high. Third of all - anonymous or non-anonymous donor? Fresh or frozen eggs? There are many questions which make it hard to say the exact price. Personally we used a clinic and we went abroad. We used anonymous donor, fresh eggs. Our clinic provided us with apartment, food supply and transportation. We spent approximately $8000 plus tickets. This is the price for 2 attempts of ivf. So if you need only 1 attempt, it will cost even less. Though we went abroad, we still saved some money. I want to say that going abroad to have IVF(with donor eggs in my case) doesn't mean you will have to spend more.
     

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