what to do?

Discussion in 'Pregnant Mommies' started by ann, Feb 23, 2018.

  1. ann

    ann New Member

    Hello, girls! You know, I want to turn to surrogacy. But, I don't know much about it. What should I do first? Well, unfortunately I cannot have my own children. But my spouse and I want to make our family full. At first we wanted to adopt a child. But we didn't really like this idea. I think that surrogacy is much better. But it is difficult to start, because of the luck of information. Maybe there is someone who have turned to surrogacy already? If so, could you please tell me something about it. Just anything that may be important? I would like to know more before starting. I will be very happy to get your advices. Thank you.
     
  2. space24

    space24 New Member

    Hi! You know, I think I may help you. Well, I have a friend. She can't have her own children too. That is why her husband and her decided to turn to surrogacy. This is not very difficult procedure. But you know it takes some time. First of all, it is important to find a good clinic. Then you need to see the doctors. They will tell you all the details. It is important to follow all the recommendations. But you know, I need to say that surrogacy is not the only way to have a child. Actually, I have the same problem. But now I am a mother. I haven't turned to surrogacy. I turned to IVF. You may think about it too.
     
  3. ann

    ann New Member

    Oh, thanks for the answer! Well, you are right. Clinic is a very important part in the situation. So, I need to be very careful and choose it right. Yeah, I should start with it. This would be very good begging. But you know, now I also interested in your words about IVF. Actually, I didn't even think about it. Now I think that it is pretty good way to make my dream come true. I think I need to talk about it with my spouse. I like it much better. May I ask you to tell me something about it too? I know almost nothing about it. Only general information. May you please share your experience?
     
  4. space24

    space24 New Member

    Of course, there isn't any problem. I would be very happy to share my experience. I think that I need to begin with the simplest things. They will help you to understand the most important things much better. I want to begin with this: IVF is a complex series of procedures. They are used to treat fertility or genetic problems and assist with the conception of a child. During this procedure, mature eggs are collected from your ovaries. Than they are fertilized by sperm in a lab. Then the fertilized egg or eggs are implanted in your uterus. You need to know that the procedure can be done using your own eggs and your partner's sperm. Or IVF may involve eggs, sperm or embryos from a known or anonymous donor. Of course, your chances of having a healthy baby using IVF depend on many factors. They are: your age and the cause of infertility. In addition, IVF can be time-consuming, expensive and invasive. If more than one embryo is implanted in your uterus, IVF can result in a pregnancy with more than one fetus. That means there is a possibility of multiple pregnancy. Your doctor can help you understand how IVF works. He can explain the potential risks. He also will tell you whether this method of treating infertility is right for you. I think that this is the most important information you need to know. If you decide to start this procedure, you will also need to begin with finding a clinic. After that your doctors tell you all that you need to know. If you are really interested in this, I may answer your questions. Or I may tell you a bit about surrogacy. I will be glad to help you.
     
  5. ann

    ann New Member

    Yeah, I would be glad if you helped me. Well, maybe you know something about the risks? As I understand this procedure is pretty safe. But I don 't believe that it doesn't have any risks. By the way, is it painful? Well, I have heard that sometimes there is may be a failure. Why is it so? Should a woman keep a special diet during IVF? You know, this topic is really interesting for me. I even think that this will be the best way for us to make our family full. It is more natural way, i think. That is why i want to know about it a bit more. And could you please tell me a bit about clinics? Thank you for your help. I am really glad that i find a person, who can really help me.
     
  6. space24

    space24 New Member

    Well, of course, there are some risks. But some of them are not serious. I know some of the most popular. Birth defects is one of them. But the age of the mother is the primary risk factor in every case, no matter how the child is conceived. IVF increases the risk of multiple births if more than one embryo is implanted in your uterus. Use of an aspirating needle to collect eggs could possibly cause bleeding, infection or damage to the bowel, bladder or a blood vessel. Risks are also associated with general anesthesia, if used. You know, just don't think about it and everything will be okay. I am sure in it. Well, IVF is not a painful procedure. There is nothing to be afraid of. Of course there may be a failure. But in different cases the reasons are different. Doctor's mistake is one of them. Sometimes when a woman doesn't follow all the recommendations, result may be the same

    Well, you know, i turned only to one clinic. That is why i don't know much about the others. But i can tell about a clinic i turned to. This clinic is called BioTexCom. Well, i can say that i liked it. The doctors were pretty friendly, always tried to help with everything. They conditions are pretty good. The procedure was run by true specialists, i just felt it. Pretty good clinic. I think that you may turn to it.
     
  7. ann

    ann New Member

    Thanks for help!
     
  8. Lia

    Lia New Member

    If you want to go for surrogacy it is a good option for you. Surrogacy is like a blessing for all those couples that cannot get pregnant. Some of them opted for surrogacy, some of them decided to adopt. Surrogacy is not legal in some countries like Countries such as France, Germany, Italy, Spain, Portugal, and Bulgaria prohibit all forms of surrogacy. Surrogacy is legal in some US states, and countries including India, Russia, and Ukraine. One of my friends underwent the surrogacy because she can’t get pregnant. She had got the surrogacy from the biotexcom which is a licensed clinic in Ukraine which was successful. She told me that the staff was very supportive and expert in the procedure.The whole process was handled under the leadership of fertility specialist. A legal document had signed from the surrogate mother by the clinic. A surrogate gave the birth to her child. Now she is enjoying the life with her lovely child that completes their family. Moreover, you can also search for other countries.After confirming the details of the whole process by a specialist, only then go for treatment.Hope you find the desired results. Good Luck :):):).
     

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