What can one do when encountered with unexplained infertility? I am asking this on this forum as I know I will get an answer to this. I once joined this forum with the hope of getting what I always desired in life. And in the end, I got it and now I am very glad. As a member of the forum, I have always been trying to learn more about fertility issues. But what amazes me is the fact that the condition of my sister is so worrying and I can’t read anyone who has passed through the same. It has given us stress for almost a decade now. My sister is now six years in marriage and her husband had always tried to divorce her. She could cry tears that never stopped from her eyes. Pain and anguish were what adorned her heart. As a matter of fact, the highs and lows that she went through were so much that it almost brought her life to an end. We have also tried to seek the best treatments but to no avail. Up to date, we have never found a solution. The doctors have tried all they can but their efforts are not bearing fruits. Scans have been done but none seemed to show the cause. Sometimes it called for surgery to analyze the whole uterus but it couldn’t work whatsoever. We are not stuck on what to do her.
Having such an information shared in such a big forum is worthy the praise. It has given me an emotional zeal to almost lose myself. What you have to understand is that, when you are in this forum, you will never be short of ideas. Many women with infertility issues have learned and shared their experinces here. It is these experiences that give someone the direction which to take in pursuit to fertility.It can't be taken forgranted. What I can advise you is that if your sister has tried all hormone stimulating drugs and it never worked, kindly tell her to visit BioTex clinic for either ivf or surrogacy. I can vouch for the clinic as I am one of the people who went through the same process in this clinic. She will never regret.
Don’t mind at all. You should never worry anymore. In this forum, I bet your sister is in the right place where she will get the best solution to her problem. I know she has faced many challenges in her life as she tried to seek fertility treatment. But I can assure you after reading the many confessions in this forum, you will never regret. Your sister will gain hope again and together you shall merrily celebrate. Most of the problems arise with ladies in situations where we tend to ignore and later they develop into a very big and major problem. The ultimate price is stress and anguish which is another problem in itself. The best advice to your sister is to seek medical fertility procedure which I know will go along well with her. I don’t know whether you have ever been at BioTex clinic in Ukraine. It is a clinic at the heart of Ukraine and it offers the best ivf in egg donation. I could vouch for this clinic and urge your sister to go there. I am certain that she will never regret. So, try to encourage her as all is not lost. She does not have to fear anything in terms of medical fees. Everything is done at a cost friendly fee which she can easily afford.
Entering forums like these has made me maintain my mental health when I feel I already lose it. It is not easy to deal with this. Infertility sucks. Only those who deal with this know how painful it is. I'm very sorry for what your sister is going through. The behavior of her husband is shameful. At times like this is when you need more support from your partner. Tell your sister that you can contact a clinic in Ukraine that is very good. They offer egg donor service, that can help her a lot. If you do not know where to start or are lost, they can give her new exams. It is not an extremely expensive clinic, it offers affordable prices. She can investigate and decide if she wants to try that clinic. If the problem is her uterus, they also have surrogacy available. They are very professional and aware when using this option with a patient. She and her husband can find out about the subject. Perhaps it is best that you also see a therapist so that you can better deal with the situation. I hope everything works out well. My best wishes Xx
Hi enm, i feel for your sister and can understand what she must have gone through for the last decade. I don't think recommending you a clinic in some foreign land as an advice would be the right thing to do. I am sorry to say, but the unexplained infertility has clearly affected your sister in one of the worst ways I have ever seen. And coping with this becomes even harder when the husband behaves this way. I would like to ask you to suggest your sister to come on this forum and talk with women who have face similar issues. Forums like this one, not only have advice on what you should do, but also you can see and talk with other women who have been or had been through a similar thing. Their experiences and the success stories might give her the hope that she needs in life. Before anything, it's important to heal her mind as it must have been scarred with depression and negative emotions. I really wish to see her on this forum and she will find a ray of hope when she reads posts from other women. Getting through the rough phase is what I believe the first thing in this fight against infertility. And I wish her all the strength to do that.
And about the clinics and treatments, I suggest you find the right specialist who knows what treatment she should be given. It is only after we hear from her more about the treatments she has taken and what exactly the doctors' diagnosis suggests, that we can advice you on what options you have further. Nevertheless, do not loose hope and be there for your sister, give her hope and let her know, that science will bless her with a beautiful baby and she needs to stay positive. Love xx.
Hi welcome dear. You should not lose hope. You can defeat infertility problem very easily. There are millions of women who defeat infertility problem in professional way. I am also one of the lucky women who defeat infertility problem with medical treatment. This is golden opportunity for me to help you to overcome this critical situation in life on behalf of my own experience to provide appropriate guidance to understand this difficult situation in positive way. It is dream of every woman to enjoy healthy baby but infertility is the demon that protect their conversion of dream into reality. It is very horrible to remember my past days that are full of stress and depression due to infertility problem. It is very necessary if you want to defeat infertility problem, you should be positive attitude and positive affirmation in their life. It is medically proved that main reason of infertility is stress and depression. You should reduce stress and depression easily. You can see good news with in just two and three month like me. You should not skip this opportunity in life to enjoy with brightness and happiness with healthy baby. You can plan your baby with healthy and balanced diet having some routine work to provide proper blood supply and consume energy provide to enhance your stamina and immunity that is very profitable for you in many ways. You can choose latest advanced treatment like IVF test tube baby that has high success rate. You can choose surrogacy treatment to choose high quality egg donor to avoid miscarriage problem and death during pregnancy risk. I hope you got sufficient information to defeat infertility problem.
Hi, ladies! One of the best places to find infertility stories is a forum. Infertility caused a lot of damage to my family. It's been a long time my husband and me planning to make a family together. We are looking for the child. Not being able to get pregnant in the first year of the marriage is so panic! I know many of woman who got pregnant. I was so concerned and I went to go through the several doctors to figure out the reason behind it. When I was going to the garden it seems every mom is living a great life with the child. It was so painful moment for me and even It's still hurting me some time. I decided to meet with the specialized expertise and I have a meeting with him in next week. I am still not sure what happens in my life and why it happens?
Hi dear. It is true that no one knows when the crisis comes into life. But surely God give the courage to all of us to fight against it. I am really sorry about your sister. Actually it is the not the fault of your sister. Whether your sister is facing such the terrible condition but her husband needs to understand her condition and help her to get through out of this. It is the true that your sister needs a great support in such condition. Stressing the mind and crying all day is not the solution at all. I truly understand the current situation because of my friend had also gone through it. It is the time to support her properly and you need to take care of her health. Miracle can happen anytime so you need to motive and bring the positivity in the life of your sister. You can do proper care of your sister and help in changing the diets too. It help in regulate the periods and enhance the chance to conceive the baby. Due to balancing the hormones and circulation of the blood keep the health fit and strong. I make you sure, one day you will see the changes in your sister and able to live happily with her husband. For this you need to support her in this phase and get her to the morning walk and help in making her change which brings the hope in her. You can go with the surrogacy treatment which enhances the possibility to get pregnant. Surely your sister will bear to sweet baby and live such beautiful life with the family members.
My story is almost the same. I know how you feel and I'm so sorry you have to go through this nightmare. I had 6 miscarriages in last 8 years. Doctors don’t know the reason why I can’t carry a baby. Everyone around is getting pregnant except me. And everything I do is losing... I'm also looking into surrogacy option. It's hard when your family gives no support. Especially in our situation when we need it the most. We are lucky to have supportive husbands! It's very important to be on board with your love in our condition. Your parents are probably just ignorant about surrogacy. Have you tried explaining the process to them? There is nothing unnatural with surrogacy. It will be your baby, from your eggs and your dh sperm. The only thing which is not traditional is that a woman, who can carry a baby, will carry your child. Is this really wrong? I don't think so. For us surrogacy is our lifebuoy. Don't listen to anyone who is telling you it's wrong. They just don't get it. They don't know how it feels. They don't know what it's like to be infertile.
If her condition cannot be explained, I think you better stop it. It is time to put surrogacy on your checklist. I think all of you should move on from her issue and just face another chapter. It's the surrogacy journey.
Infertility is bad no matter what. It is sad that a disease so bad comes in so many variations. No matter which case you have it is devastating. It can go as far as to break apart couples. I have unfortunately seen it happen... Many times that is! Hoever unexplained infertility... That is a whole new level of devastating. You don't know even what is wrong. Yet something is very wrong... I can only imagine how you feel dear! If you have tried everything though... Maybe it is time that you opt for surrogacy? I don't know if you have ever thought about this but... DO keep it in mind. God bless you!
