Unfriendly uterus

Discussion in 'Trying to Conceive' started by Hanna83, Oct 1, 2017.

  1. Hanna83

    Hanna83 New Member

    Hi! I am Hanna. I am 34 years old. I had a miscarriage a year ago. Doctors told me that I have unfriendly uterus. I want to have a baby. I want to try again but I am scared that I will suffer again.
     
  2. sara222

    sara222 New Member

    I am so sorry about your miscarriage. I believe you feel so much pain. You are still so young. You will have children, I am sure. Don't give up.
     
  3. laura123

    laura123 New Member

    Dear Hanna, I am sorry for your lost. Be brave and try again. Many ladies had a miscarriage and the second time it was everything fine. Don't miss an opportunity to ha a child. Wish you good luck.
     
  4. snjeza1

    snjeza1 New Member

    If you want a baby I believe that you will find strenght. Don't be afraid. You are so young. Don't lose your hope. I will prey for you.
     
  5. Jana1

    Jana1 New Member

    Hello Hanna! My advice to you is to keep on trying. It doesn't mean that the second time will be the same. Find strenght inside yourself. God will bless you with child.
     
  6. Hanna83

    Hanna83 New Member

    Thank you ladies. Your support is very important to me. I know that all of you here on this forum suffered something like this. That is why I appeciate your support and advices. I will keep on trying. You gave me hope.
     
  7. snjeza1

    snjeza1 New Member

    I am glad that you are feeling better. Glad that you will try again. If you don't succeed you may try different methods. It's not everything lost yet. You must be persistant.
     
  8. Jana1

    Jana1 New Member

    Yes, there are so many methods to conceive. But I agree that you can try again naturally. If it doesn't work be free to talk to us. Seek for advice. Good luck dear.
     
  9. susy123

    susy123 New Member

    I believe that you want a child so much that you will defeat your fear. Just don't give up. It's the worst you can do. Don't let that fear stops you. Believe that there is a light on the end of the tunel.
     
  10. RES

    RES Member

    Hello, dear! Do not lose your hope. Have a faith and strong will to pursue pregnancy despite miscarriage. You can ask a doctor some advice on how to avoid this to happen. If you cannot conceive anymore, do not worry, there is IVF. That is a good option.
     
  11. Pinak

    Pinak New Member

    Hello Hanna, I am sorry to hear about your loss. It is so terrible to lose a child. Could you elaborate your condition a bit more? Can the uterus condition be fixed? If not then it might be better to go for alternate options. Perhaps surrogacy?
     
  12. Simmons

    Simmons New Member

    Hi! I am sorry to hear your story. Don't lose hope just yet. You are still young. You have many years of fertility ahead of you. Ask the OB for suggestions on how to turn your situation around. Uterus implantations might be what you need. Or you could even go for surrogacy.
     
  13. Fiercequeen

    Fiercequeen Moderator

    Hello there deary. How are you feeling? I hope that you were capable of leaving this whple thing behind. I know it is hard and probably impossible but... I just hope you feel better I guess. Miscarriages are the hardest thing to deal with. I have seen a friend of mine go through it. Never will i forget the look in her eyes. This is just God testing us. He wants to make sure that heaven will be full of good people. People that deserve to be there absolutely. People like you dear. I said this before today too, to another user. Before god gives us that heaven he will send it first here on earth. For all the piepl like you and I who have been through a lot. Better days are coming dear dont worry. Consider surrogacy too and adoption. If you go with surrogacy keep Biotexcom in mind. I have heard a lot of good words about it. Havent been there myself though.
     
  14. jannie

    jannie New Member

    Hey Hanna, how are you? I am sorry to hear about your mc. When did you get married? It’s been one year of your mc so you should ttc now. Try once again. Miracles do happen. If you have some serious problem then you must go for IVF? Hasn’t your doctor suggested you the infertility treatments? IVF is very effective and its very common now. Don’t lose your heart. IVF is the best option for you. Next option will be surrogacy in case IVF doesn’t work (1% chance). I wish you very best of luck. Take good care of your diet and health.
     
  15. Pheobe412

    Pheobe412 New Member

    Hi there, Well it seems allot. But you know you never give confirmation of these things. Normally things go well way before than that. In some cases it happens also. I think you need a checkup. A proper inspection from a specialist. Well it's not the thing you got to worried about because it's normal for some cases. A friend of mine got pregnant after the 3 years of trying. So it happens all the time out there. You just need to get relaxed and never get any tension. What's happening is good for you. Try to consult with the specialists. Of course there is going to be some tests and if some problem is out there. You'll find it. which I hope is not there.
     
  16. Pheobe412

    Pheobe412 New Member

    Hey, Don't worry you chose the right platform. I can't say how much I moved by reading your story. I am very sorry for your loss and I know nothing could replace it. but many congratulations to you for your beautiful baby boy. Life gave you another chance. It's not for everyone. You are very lucky. Be happy and try to focus on positive things. Now everything is great.
     
  17. babytime

    babytime New Member

    I'm so sorry about your situation. How are you doing now? It's really hard to go through troubled ttc. It makes me sad so many couples nowadays face infertility. I wish all of us could conceive naturally right away. I wish all of us have no reasons to turn to additional help. Still we are lucky to have options which may help us to become parents. I also faced infertility. Unfortunately I can't carry a baby due to my health condition. I had termination of a pregnancy back in 2012. My husband and I were trying to conceive for a long 9 years. Now we are looking into surrogacy. This option gives me belief that we will become parents despite my disease. I want to say all women out there who faced infertility do not waste time on stress and sadness. There are many options. I'm sure there is at least one option which will definitely help you to become a mother.
     
  18. Norin

    Norin Moderator

    Hello hun! I've also had a mc and I'm so sorry you went through this. It was hard to continue TTC and get pregnant again. We can't control much our pregnancy but the most important is to stay positive, avoid stress and care about yourself and your baby. I don't know which advice you want or what you want to hear. I think you should visit your doctor. You should check your fertility. A fertility specialist will advise you what to do next. I wish you good luck!
     

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