Hi! My name is Laura. I am married for 5 years. 3 of those years I spend building my career. Now I am 33 years old and I want a child. Two years we are trying but no success. I am afraid that I'm lost my good years. Days are passing by and I am more and more convinced that I never will be a mother.
Hi! You are still young Laura. Don't think that you cannot conceive because you are waiting few years. Probably there is another reason and you must found out what it is. Visit your doctor. Talk to him about special clinics where you can go on a detail examination.
Hi Laura! I agree that your years shouldn't be a problem. You are still very young. If there is something wrong you still can do something about it. Maybe it's nothing and everything will be OK. If you still cannot conceive go to the doctor and do some tests. Both you and your husband.
Hello! Two years of trying are long but not to much long to be depressive. You must talk to your husband. Convince him to go with you to the doctor. It's better to do some tests for both of you. Then you will know for sure.
Hello, Laura! Do not panic. Have you consulted your doctor on how to boost your chance of getting pregnant? If not, I think this is now the time. But do not worry if you will be diagnosed with fertility problems because there is IVF that could answer it.
Hello Laura, 33 years is still very young. Fertility is usually still very high at 33. Have you considered visiting a fertility expert? Maybe there is a problem that is preventing conception. It could be something small. Do not worry much, but ensure you see a doctor. GL to you.
Hey, 33 years is still quite a young age to feel so depressive about it dear! Don't lose heart so soon! If you really are exhausted of trying and failing time and again then you should consult the doctor and explore other options. Search for good clinics! I have had this situation and I opted for the IVF with donor egg procedure at Biotexcom and after all those hardships, becoming a mother is blissful! Don't be disheartened, be strong and make the right decision! You have time so I would suggest you go for a good doctor and see what he or she advises you. Good luck!
Hello Laura! You are only 33! You are still young! Don't think that it is too late for you to become a mother. Throw away all those negative thoughts from your head! Some people are ttc for 10 years or even more and only then they become parents. I wish all of us could conceive right away. But for some of us this is not that easy. I think both you and your dh should visit a doctor and check your fertility state. I'm not saying you have problems with health. Two years of unsuccessful ttc do not mean you're infertile. But medical check will let you know if something is wrong. I wish you good luck!
Good day, Laura, oh dear you are still young and you have plenty of time. No need to get depressed. As there is a solution to every problem. Consult a doctor and look into all the options dear. Don't panic. You need to figure the cause due to which you aren't able to conceive.
You know until your 35 your reproducing organs do not suffer major damage. I don't think age is the factor here. Maybe there is something else... Ia m hoping something treatable. Or even better curable. Have you visited a fertility specialist already? THat would be the right thing to do now. You need to see whether it is age that is causing all this. Two years is a very long time to TTC! Usually old age causes Miscariages not infertility. SInce you haven't been able to conceive at all... You get my point visit a specialist. I am sure that you are only mere steps away from what you seek. You'll see for yourself pretty soon dear. God bless you and your family.
Hello there, Never gets disappoint with your life. This is not you. It's your depression talking. You are not feeling well at this time while saying this. People say such a things during heavy mental pressure or like that. Life is beautiful. It's our one and only chance to keep it. even that's not in our hands. Who knows when we are dying. So live what you have. If you having issues with your husband try to solve them normally. If that's not possible try to do what makes you happy. In the end, It's your life. It's your decisions. Make decisions in a good mood not in bad. it almost clears half of the problems.
I'm so sorry you couldn't conceive during last 2 years. You should definitely visit a doctor. They will give you the knowledge about medical state of your health. You should do the whole medical check to know what the reason of your unsuccessful TTC. I would advise you do this as soon as possible. As I know it is considered to be "ok" if you don't get pregnant during first year of trying. After a year if you don't get pregnant you should visit a doctor. This’s important for both you and your partner to make a thorough check of your health. I'm not saying that you for sure have some problems with fertility. Maybe it's not the time yet and very soon you will get pregnant and everything will be fine. But just to make sure that your fertility is in perfect condition, you should visit a specialist. I hope you will find the reason of your inability to conceive. I wish you best of luck!
I agree with comments above. You should see your doctor. Only they can tell what's happening with you. I'd advise you to do this asap and not to waste time. I don't think your symptoms show that you can't conceive, but still only doctor can tell. Even if there are problems with fertility, there are treatments, which can help for sure. I wish you all the best!
You are a young woman and you have high chances to get pregnant. On average, a woman in her 30s has a 15 to 20 percent chance of getting pregnant each month. Fertility gradually declines throughout the decade, especially after age 35. Though fertility is dipping a bit, it's not necessarily in the danger zone, especially for women in their early 30s. You should also consider the birth control you've been using. If you've been on the pill for over five years, you should plan to stop it before trying to conceive. The body may need time to reestablish a regular ovulatory cycle. If you're going to seek treatment for infertility, it's best to do it sooner than later. If you’ve had frequent (about two or three times a week) unprotected sex for a year without becoming pregnant, then it's time to consult a fertility expert. You and your health care provider can review your medical history, current medications and overall lifestyle. This gives you the opportunity to address any concerns about your ttc. The average time it takes a couple over 30 to conceive is 1-2 years. So try to remain positive if you do not become pregnant immediately!
