Surrogacy

Discussion in 'Trying to Conceive' started by irissean, Sep 29, 2017.

  1. ninajohn

    ninajohn New Member

    its hard to fine one. I will talk to my husband regarding it.
     
  2. shannon

    shannon Member

    you can judge a good clinic by its staff and medication technologies. A good clinic staff is very friendly and supportive and they motivates you to be positive.In this case husbands should be supportive.
     
    Last edited: Sep 29, 2017
  3. ninajohn

    ninajohn New Member

    My husband is really too supportive to me. He always stand by my side.
     
  4. shannon

    shannon Member

    that is great so now you do not have to be depressed. you will achieve your dream.
     
  5. johigarcia

    johigarcia New Member

    that's true, surrogate can not take your baby, they become surrogate because they want to help others.
     
  6. shannon

    shannon Member

    do you have any surrogacy experience ?
     
  7. johigarcia

    johigarcia New Member

    One of my friend is surrogate, and I also want to become surrogate. I will go for the registration in the clinics.
     
  8. shannon

    shannon Member

    but I have heard about few cases that the surrogate took baby, are these fake news ?
     
  9. johigarcia

    johigarcia New Member

    There is legal documentation done my both parties so they can not refused. I hope it will clear your mind.
     
  10. shannon

    shannon Member

    Thanks for you all information. I will discuss about this with my DH.
     
  11. johigarcia

    johigarcia New Member

    its my pleasure. I hope everything goes well for you.
     
  12. Norin

    Norin Moderator

    Hello OP! Thank you for sharing this story with us. I'm sure it will give strength and hope to many girls here. This story definitely will make everyone to think about their TTC. We shouldn't waste time. Sometimes it seems there is no way out and we let depression take over, ruining our relationships. All we need is just seat and talk with our other half and decide what to do next. We are using European clinic. Our sm is pregnant and we'll go for our first ultrasound check in a week. I'm so excited! Can't wait to see a scan) I can't believe we'll have our baby in a few months. I wish all of you the best with your journeys!
     
  13. FredaIsenberg

    FredaIsenberg New Member

    Hi Everyone! Congratulations Iris on your baby! You're so lucky. Now your perfect family is complete, *Ahem* is it really complete or there's any other baby coming soon? Haha. Surrogacy is no doubt the best option out there. No one can take that child away from you, you have all the right. @shannon Congratulations on your twins! What can be better than this?
     
  14. Fiercequeen

    Fiercequeen Moderator

    Ohh dear, I am really sorry. You seem to have been through a lot. Htat is really not okay. However that is life for you. It doesn't always treat you right... f***, it probably never does. However that doesn't mean that you ahve to give up? Surrogacy is a great thing. I for one believe that surrogacy is a neccesity in our society! A lot of couples face infertilty. For most of them there is no other option but surrogacy. SO why no go for it? I don't see a reason... If you fear the surrogate not giving the child... Don't worry about it, just find the right perosn. Or the right clinic which is way better. Wish you luck!
     
  15. babytime

    babytime New Member

    Thank you so much for sharing your story. I'm happy for you and your family! This is so great you found a solution for your problem. I’m also looking into surrogacy. I hope my journey will be successful as yours. I'm so lucky to have my husband. He supports me during all this long years of our struggle with infertility. Back in 2012 I had termination of the pregnancy because of my health condition. I can't be more grateful to my husband because he gave me support I needed so much. I knew that situation was really hard for him. Despite this he did his best for me to recover from our loss.
     

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