Hi there guys, I hope you all are fine. I am so much worried because the only chance of us becoming parents is surrogacy and adoption. My husband is not in a favor of adoption. That leaves us with surrogacy only. I personally don't know much about this method. What basically this is. Please guys help me by showing me some proofs that if it is successful or not. I heard that this is an expensive method of conception. This method is really highly paid. What should I do now. Is there something else that I can try??
Hello! I hope you're well too. Well, I know several things about the surrogacy. Do not be alarmed, we all go a little crazy with new topics haha. The surrogacy IF is effective. It's about, basically, finding a belly that can gestate your baby for you. The baby can be biologically yours and your partner's. You take your egg and your partner's spermatozoid, and they go into the surrogacy mother. It is a process that must be treated with delicacy. The fertility clinics that offer this process almost always have very good legal terms that benefit the parents and the surrogacy mother. You do not have to be afraid. Relax and be calm. Surrogacy is a method that has many benefits. It is one of the best, including the IVF. If you want to try, you have nothing to lose. On the contrary, you will earn a precious gift for a lifetime. Good luck!
Hello! Same is the case with me. Due to unknown reasons according to my doctors, I cannot get pregnant. All the required tests have proved that I am perfect for conceiving a baby but it has been many years and I am still trying my best to make my way through it all. I found about surrogacy last month and I have been giving it a thought since then. I also need some advice regarding this process. As I have been through multiple unsuccessful processes e.g. IUI and IVF I really do not want to waste my money on another unsuccessful attempt. Through my research, I have found out that it turns out to be successful most of the times but I cannot find any suitable place to get it done from because surrogacy is illegal in Hong Kong and I really cannot think of a solution right now. If you find a suitable place to get it done from at fair prices, please let me know too, it will be a huge help to me from your side. I think traveling to another state to get it done from would cost me a lot and due to my recent health status, my husband is the only one who is earning.
Hey Pheobe412! I hope you're doing fine. Surrogacy is a great way through which you and your husband can become parents! As the method allow you to be genetically linked to the baby. Also, the chances of getting pregnant are also very high! The whole process isn't that complicated. There are two types of methods that you could go for. One allows an artificial implanting of your husband sperms through which you're able to conceive. The second method is that your husband's sperm and your egg are artificially inseminated into a donor who then carries the child. The second procedure in certain countries is not considered legal you should definitely research on that. Lastly, yes the procedure can be expensive depending on what package you opt for. Consult your doctor for which option you should go for and afterwards research about the different clinics. Best of luck! There is nothing to be scared about.
Hi Phoebe!! Hope you will be fine. I feel very sorry for your current condition and its very disturbing for a couple who have a strong urge of children. I know that you are going through the most complicated part of your life. I have also passed through this situation few years ago and I was very upset. I lose all my hopes and at that time I was unable to find any possible solution to my problem. I was having polycystic ovarian syndrome and my doctors declared that I cannot give birth to my child via natural means. Me and my husband were totally shattered at that time and were totally broken to hear the news. We searched for the clinics and we found a good place for surrogacy in Ukraine. It’s a good clinic with latest techniques and skilled doctors. I wish you go there and consult your matter with the doctors. I wish you best of luck
I only came to know about surrogacy my self, only some time ago and one thing I kind of want to start off with is that; none of these procedures and techniques guarantee 100% success. They can not, because it is physically impossible to. Even IVFs and naturally conceiving come with their own chance and probability rates, so i wouldnt try to base your opinion off of that. As far as I have researched on it, the prices for surrogacy vary because of a lot of things. The country you are getting it in and your own specific procedural variencies seem to be the biggest reasons upon which the prices depend on. Sometimes opting for international clinics might cost you lesser, it seems like. I would recommend you too research the procedure and all the things I mentioned yourself and talk it over with your husband and your doctors. Hope this helped. Cheers!
Yes mandy that is why I am so much worried. I don'y know what should I do with my life. I always felt like something is not well. Something is missing. It all seems to me like what is this. I hope you re right and this should work for me. I know what you said about IVF. I don't think that it is going to work for me. I know my condition and I am aware of that fully. I am really worried about all of this. I know this is almost my last option before adoption. I am really thankful to you guys for your supporting answers. I am feeling so secured among you all. Thanks allot for being here with me my friends. Thanks allot.
Idk if it's still a hot topic. I'll just share my thoughts and experience. Maybe it will be helpful for somebody. We are currently pregnant via surrogacy. As we are using clinic abroad, our sm lives there. Our sm is pregnant, 10 weeks. We are going to pay €40 000. Actually as the whole sum is divided into 5 parts, we've already paid €16 000. Next payment we'll make on 12th week. We really like that this amount, €40 000 is strictly set in our contract so we are sure we won't have to pay extra money, only this amount and no more. I'm so sorry you faced infertility. I know this is hard for you now. This is really hard not to give up at this point. My husband and I were TTC for almost 8 years. I had 3 MCs which were really heartbreaking. This was so hard to decide what to do next. I was so crushed I thought to give up and stop. I'm happy we decided to keep going. Though we are using services of surrogate mother I'm so glad we'll become parents very soon. I wish you all the best, dear! Just don't give up. Maybe you need small vacation without all these pregnancy stuff. Have some time together with your husband, have some rest without pushing yourself to the next step. And then you'll continue your way to parenting with fresh mind. Good luck, dear!
Hello! What are you worried about? There is nothing to be worried about. You have chosen a way to complete your life and I do not see anything there to be worried about. Surrogacy is a normal thing to do and does not cost that much at all if you get it done from a decent place and for that, you have to search and ask people with experience. I can suggest you biotexcom as I have also opted to go for surrogacy and this is the only clinic that I have found which has a suitable economical package for me.
Surrogacy has different types. 1. You use your egg and partners sperm and the embryo/embryos are transferred to a SMs uterus. 2. You use a donor egg and husband's sperm and a SM for implantation. Baby will be genetically related to your husband only. 3. You may use donor sperm and mother's egg. Baby will be genetically related to the mother. It is ofcourse possible to have both egg and sperm donated but it is not allowed in most countries. Baby must be genetically related to atleast one parent. I'm sharing a video link here. It's about a clinic but it is recorded through actual treatment of the couple. Give it a look. You'll have more questions answered.
You are getting it totally wrong its not the most expensive way to do it. If you really want a baby in your life then you have to spent some money. They provide different packages and clinic in Ukraine is the best clinic to have the surrogacy process. Experienced doctors are always available in the clinic and they treat with patience and care. I hope you are understanding what i am actually want to tell you. Best of luck to you.
Hey, whats holding you back from doing so? I mean if you really want a family and your husband is completely fertile then I do believe surrogacy is the best thing for you, look at it this way its a win-win situation especially because it takes the risk of death out of pregnancy. Try to contact multiple clinics and see which one is best for you. I would advise against clinics that are in the US they charge ten folds. Ukraine is a good option I've heard a good deal about it. Check them out sometimes. Good luck love.
hey there! your problem is very much same to my friend who many years ago was dying to have children but couldn't.But with the help of surrogacy and the clinic in Ukraine she held her own and was able to enjoy the gift of birth. the clinic in Ukraine allows you to be your own surrogate as well and also provides you with unlimited tries it has many packages to choose from.Even when you cant be your own surrogate they provide you with many choices but you get to meet them yourself until it is the 12th weeks of pregnancy. Here is a link to that clinic they take in our queries really frankly and help you out in every way possible http://biotexcom.com/services/.Here surrogacy is being done for many years with much ease.People with complications come here and go on happy with a baby.They are reasonable monetarily as well and provide you with facilities like accommodation, bilingual people so no language barrier etc.Hopefully, this will help you out in every way possible.Dig a little deeper friend.
It's a method in which you get your baby with help of another women. It costs you allot dear. If you want to go for it than keep that in your mind before. Please take care allot of yourself. Best of luck. Don't worry everything will be fine. stay happy.
Oh hi, Phoebe! Surrogacy or adoption hmm, Adoption is good but the baby is not biologically yours, and in surrogacy, the baby will be yours legally and biologically. It's a simple process where the surrogate mother carries the baby for you, with the help of your husband's sperm. Go for surrogacy it's better. Much love!
Hi Pheobe. Im just going to say to you to stop worrying. Surrogacy is a great option to go for. I, myself had my son through surrogacy. I found out about this clinic on a vacation trip. And ever since i signed up for it , they took full responsibility of getting us a baby. What came as a good surprise to me was the fact that these people gave a guarantee of 100% success. That means multiple free attempts until they gave me a baby through a surrogate. i'd suggest you consider it, make up your mind and look it up. it's really a great option for people who want their child to be like them biologically. I had a very good experience of surrogacy. My baby was born nice and healthy. I could easily meet my surrogate. And to be honest, I was kind of relieved of the fact that i won't have to experience labour pains, Good luck to you and your husband.
Hello! I also had many complications with my pregnancies in my first marriage everytime i conceived miscarriage happened. Thrice i had conceived and thrice i had gone through miscarriages at different stages. Now i am married again and i persuaded my husband to go for surrogacy method to have a baby of our own. We both have some biological substance left which can make our own child in someone's other womb without having her biological impacts on our child. The consultant has given us a detail of this issue in every aspect. So now me and my husband are looking for a surrogate to raise our child in her womb. We have contacted BioTexCom clinic for this issue and they are helping us in each and every stage, They let us meet with the other couples who are raising babies via surrogacy method too. the couples feedback is so satisfying about BioTexCom that we are now ready to go for surrogacy via BioTexCom. The clinic has a number of surrogates who are willing to raise our child in their womb. The clinic says that they will go through extensive tests methods to clear all the reports of surrogate so that we don't have any problems later on. The clinic says that the surrogate should be good physically and should be perfectly alright. the clinic has also its own many surrogates but they are looking the best one for us. If someone has experience in this surrogacy please let us know. Thanks
Now i'm 43 years old and i am married to another man and we both want babies of our own. I know at this age it is quite difficult to have babies of my own womb. Keeping in mind all the complications regarding pregnancy now i think i should go for some other option to have children. So i have persuaded my husband to go for surrogacy to have our own children. He has agreed for surrogacy so i started looking for clinics with good surrogacy records. I have founded many clinics regarding the surrogacy method but i think that clinic is the best clinic regarding surrogacy method. I contacted with them and asked them many questions and every aspect about surrogacy and they replied to every question of mine. From their satisfied answers i guess the clinic is the best solution for having a baby via surrogacy. So i suggest that you people should also do your own research regarding surrogacy and should contact a clinic for further details. But i'm worried about many other aspects like my behaviour towards the baby after knowing everything. But now i don't have any other options left so far so surrogacy is the only solution to my problems i guess. If someone is raising a baby from surrogacy method please share your experience with us so we can learn something from your experiences.
Firstly let me address your primary concern. The procedure is only expensive in the United States. In other countries it is significantly cheaper. Like with my clinic which was based in Ukraine. I only had to pay 40 Euros. Second the thing you want to be absolutely sure of regarding your surrogacy is the clinic. Choose a good clinic that has good reviews and is helpful. Good clinic will handle the legal part of the process for you. Along with that they may even provide an infinite number of tries for you. So you are guaranteed to have a child. Thirdly make sure the surrogate you get it healthy. Also get to know her well. This will make a huge difference in your experience with surrogacy.
Hii dear, If you have decided to get the surrogacy it is really a good choice if you can’t get pregnant by itself. My sister also underwent surrogacy which she had got from the biotexcom.The treatment is expensive but not that as compared to other clinics, what is the most amazing thing about that clinic is that they refund in case of failure or any complication.I also with her during the process. The staff of clinic was very nice and supportive. In the initial consultation, all details of a process were described by the doctor. My sister had got it through an economical package in which includes whole expenses of the process. I legal document had signed by the surrogate. Before starting the treatment doc had taken some medical checkup and blood tests of both my sister and surrogate. I like it how they take care of their patients so that there cannot create any problem during the pregnancy. For them, nothing is more valuable than patient’s health. After successful completion of treatment when my sister took the baby in her arms it was the wonderful moment for our family. This treatment has more success rates as compared to other treatments. I shared my own experience. Adoption can also be an option, but as I said it's your choice. All you need to take care is all legal formalities & security of you & your child. Surrogacy is like a blessing or I can say last hope for all infertile couples. Don’t get worried and just go for treatment. May all your dream comes true.
