Not trying to conceive, but others wishing I were

Discussion in 'Trying to Conceive' started by Lorainne, Jan 5, 2015.

  1. Lorainne

    Lorainne New Member

    My mother in law is working my last nerve. We already have four children, a pretty hefty mortgage and baby doc bills left over from an emergency C-section and extended recovery from this past pregnancy and yet she is still insisting we need to be having more children. Well, it's more like subtle hints. Sometimes, she will 'subtly' drop a clue as to how many grandchildren she was really hoping for. At this point, four is going to have to be enough as we are not millionaires and kids cost a lot of money to raise. I just want her to back off.
     
  2. Beverly

    Beverly New Member

    You should not listen to others who are trying to pressure you into having more children. You know what your financial situation is like more than anyone and if you don't think you can afford another baby, then don't even try. Babies and children don't feed themselves off love. You need money for all the many expenses that would be coming your way.
     
  3. dazzyshahu

    dazzyshahu New Member

    Hello and welcome at this online open platform. It is good idea to share your personal problem at this digital platform where you can get the best in class information from others life experience to face same situation like you. It is good signal that you are aware about your body and advanced technique to overcome this difficult situation in smart way. I also face same problem like you. Now I am happy and healthy enjoying my life with fulfill nice to become perfect mother in my life. It is very important to have proper understanding with your husband to get satisfaction in life with number of child. It is real planning to discuss this problem with easy and effective way. You should not compromise with your health at any cost. I can understand your stressful life due to this horrible situation. You have to pay more in future with less care about your health. We try many effective methods to overcome this horrible problem like you. We consult with popular gynecologist of Ukraine to get reasonable solution of my problem in medical way.

    It is time to make proper plan with regular period cycle that is directly connected to reproductive very well to take real time benefit in your life. You should understand the importance of healthy lifestyle and balance diet. It is very important to provide proper nutrition value to your whole body for smooth working. You can easily overcome this stress full situation with effective yoga and meditation to get full relaxation and body and mind. You should consume rich iron food with folic acid to enhance your immunity and high hemoglobin level in your blood for create win-win situation for you.
     
  4. RES

    RES Member

    Hello, Lorraine! I think you should explain to your parents about your feelings. I think he/she can understand you when you will just approach them earnestly.
     
  5. Gracie Brooks

    Gracie Brooks New Member

    If you already have four children and you are not willing to be mother anymore, then make your mother-in-law understand about this. Bring her to a doctor along with you so that she realize the disadvantages of having many children.
     

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