Need your advice!

Discussion in 'Trying to Conceive' started by space24, Dec 20, 2017.

  1. space24

    space24 New Member

    Hello, forum visitors!

    You know, I turned to IVF several weeks ago. It was very difficult decision for me and my husband. But it is the only way for us to become parents. So, we chose several clinics to turn to. All the clinics are in different countries. We want to compare them and decide which if them would be better. As far as I know, all the IVF programs are the same. so the main point s are doctors and conditions, price. Three weeks ago we visited one of them. This week we will visit one more clinic. So I am going to take some tests. It is very interesting for me, how this process is run. I am a bit worried. But if it is completely safe, so there is no need to be afraid of it. I hope that the results will be normal. I am ready to try as many times as it is needed. I am 45 and it is the only chance for me to become a mother. So any information about IVF is very useful for me. I know that I should be strong. My relatives help me and support me. So now I don’t hesitate and want to achieve the wanted results. I really want to be a mother. It is my dream to have a full family, so hope I will be able to make my husband the happiest father. IVF is a long and difficult period in my life. I hope that it worth it. I have several questions. First of all, should I take some medicine during the process? what food should I eat or it is not so important? How long will it take to get the results of the tests? How often will I need to see a doctor if I am pregnant? What are possible problems? Please answer my questions. It is very important not only for me, but for the other women. Thank you.
     
  2. ann

    ann New Member

    You know, it is really very responsible step in your life. So I understand your feelings. Now you want to do all that you can to achieve your goal. That's why you want to do everything correctly. And it is right. You need to know, that all the information about medicine you can get from the doctors. If everything is fine, you will see your doctor as often as usual pregnant ladies. Of course, you need to do all the recommendations to avoid problems. You shouldn't drink alcohol, smoke. Take walks every day and don't worry. Good mood is all what you need. Try to eat only healthy food. Baby needs lots of useful components. It is also very important to choose the right clinic. Think carefully!
     
  3. space24

    space24 New Member

    Thank you!

    This information is really important for me. Of course you are right. Choosing the clinic is very responsible and serious step. I should think carefully. I visited one of the clinics one week ago. The doctors were good, I liked them. The conditions are great. The doctors said that I needed to pass some tests. But I want to visit two or three more clinics. I want to compare them and decide which of them is better. We decided to turn to clinics in different countries. I have heard lots of information about them. People say, that they are pretty good. Their reputation is very high. They are considered to be the best in the world. By the way, you say that you got pregnant from the first attempt. It is really great. I know that it depends on doctors and your health. Say, what clinic did you choose? What country did you turn to? Why did you make this decision? Is the clinic really good? Maybe I need to visit it too, but I am not confident. I know that IVF programs are all the same in different clinics, so I am going to pass tests in different clinics. Now I try to collect as much information as I can about different clinics in the world. I want to do all my best to achieve my goal so this period is the most important. So, maybe you can tell me a little about the clinic you turn to? Are the doctors good? And what about the conditions? Was it expensive? Hope you will help me. Thanks.
     
  4. ann

    ann New Member

    Of course, I can help you. First of all, I want to say, that the clinic I turned to chose my spouse. Before that we turned to three more clinics. But you know I didn’t really like them. They are pretty good, the specialists are great. But their prices were pretty high too. At that time we were thinking about two of these three clinics. But them a friend of my husband told us one story. His sister had the same problem as we are. This woman turned to a Ukrainian clinic. She became a mother after the first attempt. He said, that she was completely satisfied with everything about this clinic. So my spouse said that we should try to turn to it too. We were thinking about it for some time and decided to try. We came to Ukraine and find the clinic BioTexCom. When were came there, we questioned the doctors about all the information we needed to know. We find out that the clinic not so many years ago. But now it is considered to be one of the best. The percentage of success is very high. So I pass some tests. After that the specialists told me that I the results are very good and we can try to begin the process. I told to my husband. He supported me and said that this clinic much better than three others. You wanted to know whether doctors are good. So I may say that they are true specialists. They are very friendly and always ready to help. The conditions are good enough too. As for the prices, I may say that they are not so high as in the other clinics. IVF is pretty expensive procedure, but some clinics make it even more expensive. I think that you may turn to it and compare to the others. Maybe you will like it more, maybe not.
     
  5. space24

    space24 New Member

    Oh, thanks for the quick answer! I am glad to get any help and advice! You really helped me. I am sure my spouse and I should think about this clinic. You know, I have heard about it. But up to now I wasn’t confident whether it is really good. Thanks for the useful information. I think it would help not only me. It will be important for the other women that are looking for a good clinic. I think that we will visit it. I think that it is important to talk to doctors of all the clinics I have chosen. Maybe I really will find out that the clinic you told me about is much better. But maybe not. It is very important for me to know that I will work with the true specialists. I don’t want to turn to a clinic where doctors are not experienced. This may affect the outcome. Mothering is my dream from the young age. I am ready for everything to make it come true. I want everything to be fine. Hope that I will be able to make my spouse happy soon. He wants to be a parent too. I believe that good specialists can help us. I am ready to trust the doctors. But I want to make sure that they really know what they do. I think that it is important for every lady who turns to IVF. Nobody wants to waste money and get no result. So, thank you! Hope, your family and you will be happy. God bless you! Wish you good luck and happiness!
     
  6. ann

    ann New Member

    You are welcome! I am glad to help people. I want every woman to be happy. That is why I try to share as much useful information for them as I can. I have pretty good life experience, so may help most of the ladies.
     
  7. ann

    ann New Member

    By the way, I have some information to share. You know, several days ago i found one interesting video. It is released by a clinic BioTexCom. Well, it answers lot's of questions. It explains lot's of things. For example, it helps to understand why sometimes people need to wait before signing a contract. It explains why sometimes people say that they hate the clinic. The video is short and so informative. I liked the fact that it tells not only about this clinic. It is about all such clinics in general. They are trying to help not only their clients. I think that it was really good idea to release such video. Has somebody seen it already? What are your impressions?
     
  8. space24

    space24 New Member

    It is interesting. I haven't seen the video you are talking about. But I am interested in it. I have heard about the clinic. My friend is going to turn to it. Can you share the link? I think it would be a good idea to show it to my friend. If you say that it is very informative, I hope that it can really help her and answer her questions.
     
  9. ann

    ann New Member

    Of course. This is the link. I am sure that it will definitely help your friend. She will find lot's of useful information. Actually, this is not a single video they released. There are some more of them. But I think that this one is the best one. It is really can solve a lot of problems.

     
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  10. Fiercequeen

    Fiercequeen Moderator

    You are right up to a point. The process of IVF is pretty much the same everywhere. What matters, as you say, are the prices and all that. However that is not completely true. You see some clinic treat people very poorly! They just want your money... Once they get it they are done. That can cuase a lot of issues for you! Also some clinics might have crazy cheap prices... However their staff might be super unporfessional. they might end up doing something wrong to your body! I counted all these things when searching a clinic. I choose BioTexCom at the very end. A clinic located in Kiev, Ukraine. It had all the criteria that I was seeking. professional, warm, price are great, free accomodation and many many more. I hope this helps you! God bless you!
     
  11. Paige

    Paige New Member

    Hello! I hope you made this important decision. Choosing the right clinic is important. I heard a lot about that clinic in Ukraine. Everyone says that they are true professionals. I wish you luck with treatments.
     
  12. Alix

    Alix New Member

    Hey there! I hope you're doing good. I am happy that your family and DH are both supportive. Having supportive people around greatly helps to boost confidence. IVF truly is a simple process. Requires the egg and a sperm which are combined together in a dish. After this, they're inserted into the uterus. With a process like IVF and IUI its better that person does his/her own research, therefore, it is a good thing that you're doing that. My aunt got an IVF done from Ukraine. She was telling me that their packages are very reasonable. The living space provided to them was also very clean. I have also heard that the success rate is high as well. I am only saying this because my aunt was able to have a baby. Hopefully, you're able to decide soon!
     
  13. Krystal

    Krystal New Member

    Hello OP! Are you using yours or donor eggs? I had IVF with donor eggs, but I think the procedures are pretty the same. You are very wise to think ahead! The carrying mom needs a strong uterus and overall physique. To prepare I took prenatal vitamins and ate mostly whole foods. I’m also more careful with my sugar intake. I just cut back on sugar, and actually didn't miss it much as I was doing it for baby. Try to get at least 8 hours sleep, drink water, and walk for exercise, basically a pregnancy diet. The iron is especially important for the uterus and your increased blood production during pregnancy. The IVF clinic will make sure you have all you need as they will also watch your cycle to be sure to put in embryos at the proper time. The shots and pills before your transfer are really not that bad, you just have to keep in mind what for you are doing it. Enjoy every bit of your journey! I wish you all the best with your upcoming procedure.
     

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