Looking for advice

Discussion in 'Trying to Conceive' started by space24, Feb 9, 2018.

  1. space24

    space24 New Member

    Hello! You know, I need your advice. Let me share my story first. My husband and I have always wanted to be parents. We have been trying for 6 years. But unfortunately, there was not any result. That is why we turned to a doctor. He said that I cannot have my own children. We were so upset. But then we decided not to give up. First, we wanted to adopt a child. Then we understood that surrogacy is one more way to create a full family. It is even better than adoption. We wanted to try it. But I met my friend and she advised to turn to IVF. She said that it was one of the best ways we should use to solve the problem. So, we started to find out for the information about IVF. And now I think that it is really a good solution. We decided to try to turn to it. But there are still so many questions. I want to ask you for advice. Maybe there are some people on the forum who can help me. If you turned to IVF, please share your experience. I am interested just in everything about it. Every piece of information is important. First of all, I want to know where to start. I don’t know what clinic to choose. Actually, I know not so much about the procedure in general. What are the most important points about it? Please, tell me a bit about it. I would be very glad to get your help.
     
  2. iren

    iren New Member

    Hi, dear! I am so sorry to hear your story. First of all, I need to say that it is great that you are not trying to give up. This is really important in your situation. It definitely will help to achieve your goal. You know, I also turned to IVF several years ago. So I think, I can help you. I also think that this is the best way to become parents. In this case your child would be completely yours. And it is really great. Well, let’s talk about your questions. First of all, you need to start with your thoughts. You shouldn’t think that something may go wrong. Just forget about it. Believe that everything will be fine. When you feel that you are ready to start the procedure, you may start to look for a clinic. This is one of the most important steps. You need to be sure, that a clinic will really help you. I suggest you to visit several different clinics. You will be able to compare them and find the best one. Talk to doctors. These people will help your child born. You need to believe them. If you don’t like the doctors, don’t choose a clinic. Actually, there are lot’s of good clinics in different countries. You may choose any of them. The procedure is not painful, don’t be afraid of it. It won’t take a lot of time, if you don’t need any additional treatment. Just listen to the doctor’s advice. Everything will be great if you believe in a success.
     
  3. space24

    space24 New Member

    Thank you for your answer! I am so glad that there is a person who can help me. Thank you for the useful information. You know, I can’t help agreeing with your words. I also think that I need to be sure that I am ready for the procedure. I still a bit worry about it. But my husband tries to support me. You know, this really helps. He does everything to help me, but he worries too. I know it, and this support makes me stronger. That is why everything will be great. I believe that our goal will be achieved. I know that we will be able to become parents. I also think that it is a really good idea to visit several clinics. It is really important to trust doctors. You know, we want to turn to one of the America’s clinics. we have heard a lot of information about it. They say, this is pretty good one. But we also have heard about one of the Ukrainian clinics. First we want to visit these two clinics. And if we don’t like them, we will think about some other. Maybe you can suggest some more clinics? By the way, can you please tell a bit more details about the procedure? For example, what treatment should I get? What is the additional treatment? In what case should I get it? What about the food? Should I avoid some products? Maybe I need to take some medicine during the procedure? Maybe you can recommend or tell me something else? Please, it is really important.
     
  4. iren

    iren New Member

    Oh, well, I really have some information to share. I will be really glad to help you. You know, it is really great that your spouse supports you. It is so important in this situation. If you really want to become parents, I think we will be able to do it. Well, let’s talk about clinics. It is good that you want to visit different clinics. You said that one of them was Ukrainian. You know, I turned to the clinic in Ukraine too. It is called BioTexCom. Well, you asked me about clinics that I can recommend. I can say that this clinic I can recommend for sure. I really liked it. It is really great one. First of all, their doctors are true specialist. They always know what to do. They always ready to help. The conditions I liked too. I can say that the clinic tries to do everything to make all the clients feel comfortable. They really care about people. You know, they have their own video blog. If you are interested in it, I can share the link. You will need to take some medicine. But more details about it you will learn from your doctor. Sometimes, if a woman has some problems with her health, she may need some more treatment. But it won’t take much time. As for the food, I can say that the most important thing is to eat a lot of vitamins. Fruits, vegetables, milk – don’t forget about these products. But you should forget about coffee and black tea. Alcohol and smoking is not allowed too. That’s it.
     
  5. space24

    space24 New Member

    Okay, this is clear. You know, I am interested in the clinic BioTexCom. So, I would like to know more about it. I will be glad if you shared the link on the video blog. What do they tell people about? Is this information really important? I have heard that this clinic has very high percentage of success. Is it true? And what about prices? Are they much higher than in the other clinics?
     
  6. iren

    iren New Member

    Okay. This is the link. Well, I think that you really will find there a lot of useful information. I think that it is great that they have this video blog. The videos are not long, but they contain a lot of information. They answer the most popular questions about the clinic. Also, they tell about IVF in general. I think that it is very important for all people who wants to turn to IVF. These videos help to understand a lot of things. So, I think that it is worthy to see them. By the way, there some that can tell you more details about the apartments. Oh, there is one more video you need to see. It is called "I hate Biotexcom". Pretty useful one. Well, all these videos can tell about small details. But about important details. Hope that this will be helpful for you. As for the percentage, it is really high. The specialists do their best to make their clients’ dreams come true. But sometimes happens that the first attempt is unsuccessful. The reasons may be different. But on most cases the second one doesn’t fail. So, in this situation don’t think about giving up. Find power in yourself and try again. Well, prices in clinic are usual. I mean, they are not much higher than in the other clinics. But they are not lower too. I think the prices are normal, that is why most people can turn to this clinic and don’t worry about it. Well, that’s it. If you have some questions, ask me. I will be glad to help. Wish you good luck!
     
  7. space24

    space24 New Member

    Thank you very much! Your help is really important for me. Really, thanks.
     
  8. Erin Clifton

    Erin Clifton New Member

    Hey there. I hope you are doing well. It is sad to hear from you. My heart cries out for you. Having a family is a dream for everyone. Knowing that you can not have one, is a difficult thing to handle. You haven't mentioned the method through which the doctor confirmed your infertility. Did he take some tests? Do you know the reason for it? Or the reason for your infertility is still unknown? I would like to share my knowledge to answer your questions. IVF is a process in which your eggs and sperms are kept outside your body for fertilization. After fertilization, they are transferred back to your uterus. While in surrogacy, you opt for someone else's womb to keep your baby for nine months. After nine months, the baby is yours legally. In both the process, you can opt for donor's eggs if you have got some problem with yours. Both of them have a nice success rate. Now the choice of method depends on the cause of your infertility. Get yourself thoroughly checked. Wish you luck for future.
     
  9. Aimen

    Aimen New Member

    I think, it's better to have a baby through surrogacy rather then adopting a baby. IVF is another option you can have a baby. You have done great job by choosing this forum. You will came to know about many things. Many experienced couples are giving proper information regarding surrogacy or infertility problems. I am sure you will get your answers. I am facing infertility problems from many years. In start when i was having problems i used to take a lot of stress. This process is safe, I have done research and i am planning to visit the clinic. Try your luck, never loose hope.
     
  10. Dorry776

    Dorry776 New Member

    Hey there. I am sorry that you had to go through all the bad stuff. I am very glad that you have finally made up your mind. IVF is going to be a huge success for you I am very sure about it. Do not be worried at all. The clinic that is mentioned above is going to be the perfect place for you because I myself am getting some treatments done from their and I really love the staff and their prices. I think you should go for it.
     
  11. lydia321

    lydia321 New Member

    Hello lady! I am sorry that you have been trying so hard for 6 years but you should feel lucky that you got to find a solution. There are many people out there who spend all their life looking for a solution and when they get to find one, it is sometimes very late for them to proceed with it. You should feel lucky because you are still young and the treatment that you have chosen is widely known for its success. The process consists of your egg being fertilized outside of your body by sperms. If your eggs are not functional then you can always use donor eggs. Donor eggs are other woman's eggs that are donated by her in order to get you a baby. When the egg is successfully fertilized, it is put back into your womb. It is not at all as painful as it sounds like. The doctors have worked together through many years to find out ways to make it as less painful and easy as it can be. You should look for nice clinics to get it done from. I would suggest you not to get it done at any local clinic because they offer the treatment with very high prices. Be careful of scams because some clinics are really out there to waste your money in return of a failure.
     
  12. Isabella

    Isabella New Member

    You have to choose the best clinic for yourself. There are many good clinic providing facility to have a baby through surrogacy. I am sure you have gone through from them. If you have not gone through the you should start research. And find the perfect one for your self. You have to choose the clinic. I recently visited a clinic which suits me in terms of my condition's. But still i am thinking and not sure. They are providing facilities like legal documents, residence. I don't want to live at their place. They are providing me the place but still i am doing what i actually want to do. I am sure you will find the perfect clinic for yourself. As it is the most important part to choose the best clinic. But you have to make sure about them. Consult with different experienced couples. Don't loose hope, just keep trying. You will surely find the best clinic for yourself.
     
  13. Alix

    Alix New Member

    Hey, I hope you're doing fine. Going for IVF is a really good decision. The procedure itself isn't that difficult. The part where your egg is extracted is after which you will have 7-day symptoms but after that, you'll be fine. Once, the egg is extracted it will be combined with the sperm and then the embryo will be developed. Once formed it will be placed in your uterus. However, I would suggest that you visit a good clinic for the treatment. Someone with a good reputation would make it easy for you. I am saying this from my own personal experience. As I found a clinic which was perfect as well. They offer packages according to your financial needs. Also, the legal framework is exceptionally done. Everything is double checked with the patient and the people they are working with. I hardly felt worried because everything was taken care of extremely well. Also, I remember when I first visited them there was soo many foreigners present over there that it surprised me. So I would suggest the same clinic to you as well.
     
  14. jeje

    jeje New Member

    well, sapce24 really i am sorry for the situation you are in.It really breaks my heart to see people wanting babies but couldn't get them.I have been in the same boat for very long.Take it 10 years at least.I have been trying but no luck.I have gone through IVF many times and for me, it is a big NO.The thing is IVF requires your own body to respond.If my body is unresponsive naturally then the chances of it responding through IVF are less.Also, the people guided me wrong.They never told me that my eggs were healthy or not.Now i am going for surrogacy.This looks like a much better option.It has many success stories.Especially a clinic in Ukraine that allows unlimited tries at the same expense.You must go for that instead of wasting time as I did.I hope that you got my point.Best of luck.
     
  15. Eli

    Eli New Member

    During IVF, mature eggs are collected from your ovaries and fertilized by sperm in a lab. Then the fertilized egg (embryo) or eggs are implanted in your uterus. One cycle of IVF takes about two weeks. It is a very effective method to treat infertility. IVF is the most effective form of assisted reproductive technology. The procedure can be done using your own eggs and your partner's sperm. Or IVF may involve eggs, sperm or embryos from a known or anonymous donor. The probability of success with IVF treatments depends upon a number of factors like the age of the woman, the cause of infertility, the quality of eggs retrieved and the quality of the semen. In general, the success rate is near-about 41-30% for age group of 35-39. It decrease with increase in age or it may take more attempts. But IVF proves to be very effective to treat infertility. I found Ukraine is the best palace to undergo IVF. I tell you this from my personal experience. Feel free to know more about this. Hope it helps you. Good Luck.
     
  16. Fiercequeen

    Fiercequeen Moderator

    Hey there to you my friend. I am glad you made this post. It will help you understand some stuff better... Heck maybe youll know yourself better after this. The fact that you made this post indicates that you care. Well I am doing IVF myself... Now let me say what I think of this whole thing. 1st thing you need to do is to be sure... If you have doubts think them through. Its going to be much easier if you deal with your dilemmas before you start. They wont haunt you half way through. After that comes finding an agency. There is a lot of options for that. Just a few clicks and types will give you what you need. For example IVF is super hard to get in my country due to dumb regulations. Therefore I am doing my surrogacy abroed in Ukraine. The name of the clinic where i go is Biotexcom. This might come in handy for you... God bless you my friend! Hope you found this helpful.
     
  17. Krystal

    Krystal New Member

    Starting the IVF treatment process can be an exciting and nerve-wracking experience. Usually, IVF is pursued only after other fertility treatments have failed. You may have been trying to conceive for months or, more likely, for years and years. But this is not always the case. Sometimes, IVF is the very first treatment tried. Usually, IVF involves taking many eggs (retrieved via a transvaginal ultrasound-guided needle) and placing them in a petri dish with specially washed sperm cells (retrieved via masturbation.) If all goes well, some of the retrieved eggs will become fertilized by the sperm cells and become embryos. One or two of those healthy embryos will be transferred to your uterus. But before eggs can be retrieved, the ovaries must be stimulated. Without the help of fertility drugs, your body will typically only mature one (or maybe two) eggs each month. For conventional IVF, you need lots of eggs. Injectable fertility drugs are used to stimulate the ovaries to mature a dozen or more eggs for retrieval. IVF is expensive. It’s also frequently not covered by insurance, putting the treatment out of reach for many people who need it. In fact, studies have found that only one in four couples who need IVF to conceive can actually get the treatment they need. There are ways to pay less or get financial assistance for IVF treatment, and you should look into all your options before making a decision on whether or not you can afford treatment. Personally we used a clinic and we went abroad. We used anonymous donor, fresh eggs. Our clinic provided us with apartment, food supply and transportation. We spent approximately $8000 plus tickets. This is the price for 2 attempts of ivf. So if you need only 1 attempt, it will cost even less. Though we went abroad, we still saved some money.
     

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