Kindly advise my friend

Discussion in 'Trying to Conceive' started by mge, Aug 18, 2017.

  1. mge

    mge New Member

    "My ignorance caused my infertility. As an onion farmer, I used to wake up early and spray my farm. I didn’t have a clue that it could lead to my problems. This time I had two bouncing baby girls and wanted the third one. At first, I didn’t experience periods as normal. The periods occurred during the forty-fifth day. I was dumbfounded and couldn’t really understand the cause. I was thirty-two years old and so menopause was far from me. As years crept by I decided to monitor my condition decisively so as I won’t mess up with my health. I visited the physician in a company of my colleague. When the doctor asked me several questions and did the cervical tests, all was right. It was not the cause of fibroids or endometriosis. the only advise I was given was that I should wait. I cultivated a lot of patience and decided to wait as I was instructed. Again, monthly periods couldn’t occur. It was a time of grief and gloom. No one knew the main cause. It was when I visited a referral hospital that I was told that I couldn’t menstruate any more. The only solution was I find another way of conception. Still, in tenterhooks, I decided to move from hospital to hospital for IVF egg donation but everywhere I went, the fee was too high for me. it was much expensive and I couldn’t afford. Up to date, I am still languishing in my own problem looking for an easy way out that is cheap for me to conceive and get another baby."
     
  2. kelly calvin

    kelly calvin New Member

    Hello, your post just caught my attention and this is kind of very interesting to see like minded people on such a forum where each of them has different yet very many similar opinions on this. Actually, i know about the IVF technology. Which i would like to suggest your friend go for and give a try. IVF is a great method and comes as a blessing for the couple who are wishing for a child. I have read many forums providing a different point on IVF. The idea behind the process of IVF is a woman is given hormones to stimulate the egg formation process.After which through a small surgery the mature eggs are taken out. After which sperm is collected from the man through the simple masturbation process. When both the process is done the egg and the sperm is diffused in a test tube. The doctors wait for embryos to form. When embryos are formed they are released in the uterus in a hope that any one of them will implant. After the success in implantation, the process of IVF is over later the gynecologist schedule regular checkups for the couple. IVF is mostly considered by many couples rather than surrogacy. There are lots of main causes for infertility possibility. There are lots of medical research that suggest that infertility is caused due to stress and depression. The bad habits of eating also add to the infertility process so women's should be educated first on how to keep themselves healthy and fit and how to handle situations like this. It is very necessary to have periods of proper time because irregular menstrual cycle can lead to infertility. I hope you got valuable information from my side on this.
     
  3. Fiercequeen

    Fiercequeen Moderator

    This seems to be a common issue. That is a heartbreaking story, frist of all. I am really sad for you my friend. It is hard when the thing you love ends up killing you... Be it figuratively or goddamn literally! I say this is a common problem because I faced it too. It was really devastating to see the cure you need, yet not be able to get it. Even worse it made me feel less of a human. I am not successful enough to get a baby! That is a very bad feeling.

    I found a way out through aborad treatment dear. I hope you can do the same... Have you ever thought about it? I am currently in Ukraine as I write this. My clinics name is Biotexcom. They have pretty good pricing and the treatment is freaking amazing! You know best at the end of the day tho... Hit me up if you need more help!
     

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