Hello, girls. I don't know what to do. Let me share my story. I cannot get pregnant. It is because of some problems with health. Some time ago my husband and I decided to turn to a clinic for help. We wanted to try IVF. We found a clinic, talk to doctors. After that the procedure was started. Everything was great. But the procedure was failed. And now l don't know what to do next. Maybe I need to try again. Or it doesn't make sense? My husband says that we may try to turn to surrogacy. But I am not sure. I think I just slowly lose my hope. I want to believe that everything will be great. But this failure makes me hesitate. Maybe someone can advise me something. What do you think I should do in this situation? What would be better? Maybe someone has the same experience? If so, please tell me, how to cope with it. I think that now it is important not to hurry. I need to calm down and think about the situation. This will help me to understand what do I want to do. At this time, I would like to read your opinion and advice. I think it can help me. Thanks.
Hi! I Am so sorry to hear your story. You know, I understand your feelings. Several years ago i was in the same situation. It was my dream to become a mother. All I wanted to be happy with my spouse. I wanted to make our family full. But I can't have my own children. We also decided to turn to IVF. But not only first attempt was failed. The same was at the second time. I could not find power to continue. We decided to stop for some time. I needed it to calm down. We make a decision to change the clinics. We were not sure that it could help, but the problem might be in doctors. We found one more clinic and turned to it. At first a did not have any hope. But my husband continued to believe in a success. In the result I got pregnant. And then we became parents. I am so happy now. And you know, I think that you need to try again. Maybe it is better to change the clinics right now. But first of all, calm down. Think carefully about it. Believe that everything will be okay. Remember, that tour husband is in the same situation. You need to support each other. By the way, I think that surrogacy is a pretty thing too. But in my opinion, IVF is much better. Hope you will be fine.
Oh, thank you! Your support makes me feel better. It is great that your dream come true. Well, I don't need to give up too. I feel that I really need some time before continuing. Choosing the clinic is very responsible and serious step. Well, maybe you could tell me a bit about the clinic? I think it makes sense to try to turn to another one. May be it could help me. How do you like that clinic you turned to? What country did you turn to? Why did you make this decision? Is the clinic really good? Maybe I need to visit it too, but I am not confident. I know that IVF programs are all the same in different clinics, so I am going to pass tests in different clinics. Now I try to collect as much information as I can about different clinics in the world. I want to do all my best to achieve my goal so this period is the most important. So, maybe you can tell me a little about the clinic you turn to? Are the doctors good? And what about the conditions? Was it expensive? Hope you will help me. Thanks.
First of all, I want to say, that the clinic I turned to chose my spouse. Before that we turned to ne more clinic. But you know that there weren’t any result . It is pretty good, the specialists are great. But results... At that time we were thinking about two more clinics. But them a friend of my brother told us one story. His wife had the same problem as we are. This woman turned to a Ukrainian clinic. She became a mother after the first attempt. He said, that she was completely satisfied with everything about this clinic. So my spouse said that we should try to turn to it too. We were thinking about it for some time and decided to try. We came to Ukraine and find the clinic BioTexCom. When were came there, we questioned the doctors about all the information we needed to know. We find out that the clinic not so many years ago. But now it is considered to be one of the best. The percentage of success is very high. So I pass some tests. After that the specialists told me that I the results are very good and we can try to begin the process. I told to my husband. He supported me and said that this clinic much better than three others. You wanted to know whether doctors are good. So I may say that they are true specialists. They are very friendly and always ready to help. The conditions are good enough too. As for the prices, I may say that they are not so high as in the other clinics. IVF is pretty expensive procedure, but some clinics make it even more expensive. I think that you may turn to it and compare to the others. Maybe you will like it more, maybe not.
Oh, thanks for the answer! I am glad to get any help and advice! You really helped me. I am sure my spouse and I should think about this clinic. You know, I have heard about it. But up to now I wasn’t confident whether it is really good. Thanks for the useful information. I think it would help not only me. It will be important for the other women that are looking for a good clinic. I think that we will visit it. I think that it is important to talk to doctors of all the clinics I have chosen. Maybe I really will find out that the clinic you told me about is much better. But maybe not. It is very important for me to know that I will work with the true specialists. I don’t want to turn to a clinic where doctors are not experienced. This may affect the outcome. Mothering is my dream from the young age. I am ready for everything to make it come true. I want everything to be fine. Hope that I will be able to make my spouse happy soon. He wants to be a parent too. I believe that good specialists can help us. I am ready to trust the doctors. But I want to make sure that they really know what they do. I think that it is important for every lady who turns to IVF. Nobody wants to waste money and get no result. So, thank you! Hope, your family and you will be happy. God bless you! Wish you good luck and happiness!
hello! I Am so sorry to hear your story. You know, I comprehend your emotions. Quite a long while prior I was in a similar circumstance. It was my fantasy to wind up plainly a mother. All I needed to be content with my DH. I needed to make our family full. Be that as it may, I can't have my own children. We additionally chose to swing to IVF. Yet, not just first endeavor was fizzled. The same was at the second time. I couldn't discover energy to proceed. We chose to stop for quite a while. I required it to quiet down. We settle on a choice to change the facilities. We didn't know that it could help, but rather the issue may be in specialists. We discovered one more center and swung to it. At initial a did not have any expectation. Be that as it may, my significant other kept on having confidence in a win. In the outcome I got pregnant. And after that we progressed toward becoming complete family . I am so upbeat at this point. Also, you know, I feel that you have to attempt once more. Possibly it is smarter to change the centers at the present time. However, as a matter of first importance, quiet down. Trust that there is no reason to worry. You have to help each other. Incidentally, I imagine that surrogacy is a lovely thing as well. Be that as it may, as I would like to think, IVF is vastly improved. wish You good luck and happiness
I am sorry that your ivf treatment failed. But, you know, ivf doesn't always succeed at first. Maybe you will have more luck next time. I know, it's hard to decide and go through this all over again. Talk to the specialist in the clinic. See what will they have to say to you. They must determine the cause of this failure. After that they will know do you have a chance with ivf or you have to choose other option. Either way, don't lose hope.
Hello! IVF is an effective method and you should not lose hope at any cost due to failure on the first try. I would suggest you go for it once more. Surrogacy is not a bad option at all too, I am also thinking of going for it, I just need to make up my mind and find a suitable place for it. There are always other ways to get things done. For now, I would suggest that you should try once more. And you should not stress about it a lot as stress can also be the reason behind the failure.
Hey Iren! Firstly, don't lose hope! Be positive and hope for the best. The IVF procedure does take some time! For some people, the result often comes after 2 3 attempts. Surrogacy too is a great option! Consult your doctors regarding this. Also, try searching for some good clinic who have done these treatments with a high success rate.
Your story is very inspiring for new couples. Good thing about you in this story is you never stopped trying. And you never loose hope. I think its just a matter of time when you start thinking that you are doing some thing wrong and you have to stop trying. But from my experience only those couples who never stop trying are always successful. I am also trying from 7 years and didn't conceived naturally. I never stop trying, all i know is my body is not perfect to make a baby. But it doesn't mean i cannot have a baby in my life. I am doing research for many other options to get pregnant and make a baby. Its never too late to make a baby. If you are mentally strong. I find many other options in form of surrogacy and IVF process. These process are easy and safe. All you have to do is to find best clinic for yourself to have a baby. I find many good clinics, some of them are too much expensive to have a surrogacy process. But some clinics offers different packages for surrogacy and IVF process. Like surrogacy in Ukraine clinic. These people are cooperative in terms of every thing.
Hello there my love! How are you? It is hard to cope with this dear... I know how you feel. I have been at your position many times. Everything seems meaningless. Dion't let this consume you though... Better days are coming. Personally I used to cope with the idea that I can make it. Like I had heard about things like IVF. Eveyrday I would tell myself that I can make it. No matter what I will make it! Hope is a strong feeling dear... Try to use it on your advantage! Most importantly, always remember that there is a way out of everything. God bless you dear!
I'm sorry your IVF failed. I think before deciding on what to do next you should have a consultation with a fertility specialist. What is the reason of IVF failure? If something is wrong with your own eggs, then you can try donor eggs. If the problem is much bigger and there is something with your uterus for example than you can turn to surrogacy. You'll have to provide some papers which confirm that there is no other way for you to become a mother except surrogacy. There is no clinic which would take you into surrogacy program just because you're tired from one failed IVF. I don't want to sound rude, but that's the truth. Some women have more than 6-10 IVFs before they turn to the next option. I'm not telling that you should have more IVFs. It's not my business. But you should consult with your doctor first. Only they know your health condition and they can advise what you should do next. Good luck!
