I had opted to advise my sister to go for Ivf but I could resist

Discussion in 'Trying to Conceive' started by mge, Jul 27, 2017.

  1. mge

    mge New Member

    I had opted to advise my sister to go for Ivf but I could resist. I was in desperation as I really don’t know whether she could easily agree with me. Everyone around us was insisting that we should go for assisted reproductive technology but the more we thought about it, the more our thoughts ended hitting a bedrock. It was a time of anguish and deep thoughts how we could have helped her. We were spoilt for choices but what lingered in our minds is where we should go for the best ivf procedure. Nothing in life that is so worrying in a lady like when a woman knows too well she can’t conceive. That was the feeling of my sister and everyone could easily see it printed on her face. Ivf is the most effective reproductive technology that could easily get along with her. Every other method looked complex and very worrying. She could also not follow her husband’s intimation of surrogacy. It is prohibited in our country. In fear of permanent infertility, she opted it out. Our hustle to look for the best clinic started two years back and this time she was hopeful that she would land the best fertility treatment. In every other clinic we visited, the cost was hyped and we couldn’t afford. We are now frightened where to go to. Can anyone here have a place in mind?
     
  2. tom1

    tom1 New Member

    I feeling so enlightened from what I can read here. On the other hand I feel so energised and sorrowful for your sister. I understand the hustles you have been going through. Your sister is so dear to you and that is why you really care for her. I feel like I am the one going through all that. Having undergone the struggles and the ups and downs, I was directed to BioTex clinic where I regained back my infertility. I was so much pained since my husband was about to file a divorce. Such thoughts have never crossed my mind and it made me so vulnerable to many vagaries of life. As I speak now, I am a mother of two kids.
     
  3. del

    del New Member

    Hi! I have read what your sister is going through. If she has tried all the over methods and none is working, I can ask you to go for IVF. It would be a better one if she confirms fully that she is infertile. Sometimes assistive reproductive technology can fail to work. In such a time, it would be wise to go for IVF. Some ladies just brush it off and seek treatment for a very long time. This complicates matters and may leave her in desperation. Such a situation may create more stress and pressure to a lady making her aggravate her health more than it was. I know of a friend of mine who went through such and in the end, she overcame everything. It was hard for everyone to believe all that but those who were close to her could tell it all. Life at that time looks bleak and the chances of conception are always so slim. So, it is always important to seek medical procedures in clinics that are well endowed with quality and qualified staff for that. I remember my friend going to Ukraine for a medical procedure to wipe away her infertility. Hope you are aware of BioTex clinic. The success of her recovery and procedure was very amazing. She was able to conceive and gave birth finally to a bouncing baby boy.
     
  4. Tobina

    Tobina New Member

    Hope your sister is doing well. Just encourage her to remain hopeful, and one day she will be a happy mother. I know many women who were in her predicament, but through ART, they are now happy mothers. Of course, there are many clinics that offer IVF services. What matters is your location and your budget. May be you need to share with us your location, and we shall give you a wide range of options to choose from. To make it easier for you, let me give you a few centers that offer the services. If you are in Africa, I guess you should consider visiting Cape Town IVF clinic. The cost of their service is about $15,000. If you are in Europe, consider visiting biotexcom which charges about $10,000 where as if you are in India you should check out Centre Delhi which charges about $12,000. If you are in the United States, you have many options to choose from. We have San Diego Fertility Centre, CT Fertility center among others. For more information, please give me your current location.
     
  5. adelwil

    adelwil New Member

    Hi dear. The IVF is a good choice for your sister. Do not be discouraged, think positively. If she wants to be a mother, as we already know, she can go with IVF treatment. There is a clinic in Ukraine called Biotex. This clinic offers affordable prices and excellent service. Tell your sister so she can contact them and ask for more information. I wish you the best.
     
  6. Tobina

    Tobina New Member

    Hi adelwil

    I have heard so many stories about biotex and their services. I would like to know more about what they do and offer so that I could put the clinic on my list of reference. The information I want relates to how the clinic operates and the services. Kindly help me get information on the following aspects:
    1 Does the clinic offer surrogacy services? If so what criteria do they use to choose surrogacy mothers?
    2. Does the clinic have donors who are willing to donate the eggs and sperms? If they are what is the criteria that they follow in selecting the donors to help ensure that you get the best results?
    3. Does the clinic offer accommodation services? If yes what would be the approximate length of time a mother is expected to spend at the facility and what will be the cost?
    4. What techniques are employed by the clinic in offering the IVF services?
    5. What is the minimum/ maximum age do they consider?
    6. Once the child has been at the clinic how the clinic does help the secure mother documents and the passport for the baby?
    7. What risks does one stand when they choose to have the service at the facility?
     
  7. Divya

    Divya New Member

    I thought to share my two weeks waiting.
    After three failed cycles I was keeping my hope very shallow. Three days before my period was due I felt every possible symptoms that my period was coming but I was very wrong… I tested and came positive. This is to say, don’t expected any pregnancy feeling. What meant to be it will be. Good luck ladies.
     
  8. RES

    RES Member

    I think you can go with her to an IVF specialist so that she will be enlightened about the procedure. She can also ask the specialist about her doubts and fear. Once answered, she will be encouraged to pursue it.
     
  9. Fiercequeen

    Fiercequeen Moderator

    I had kind of the same issue. IVF can really be expensive. It can ruin you financially... If you stop and trhink about this. Like give it a good thought. It is really fucked up! The only thing that can cure you. Like in the whole world. You have tried everything under the sun. From A to Z from 1 to infinity! And, that one sweet, sweet thing that can turn things around. IVF in our case... Has a high chance of ruining you financially! I know how you feel cus' I was in your shoes. I found a way out through abroad treatment. I am currently doing my IVF in Ukraine, at a clinic called BioTexCom! We can talk more about it if you like to hear more. Or just google them! God bless you dear. Hope this was helpful.
     

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