How long after a miscarriage can we try for a baby?

Discussion in 'Trying to Conceive' started by Jilly, Jan 1, 2015.

  1. Jilly

    Jilly New Member

    I am a mommy to a beautiful nine year old daughter. This past year I was pregnant for four months pregnant and suffered a miscarriage. Now it's been six months and still I'm concerned about losing another baby. So we have stopped trying to conceive. I have made drastic improvements to my own diet, going vegan and cutting out all red meat. I have stopped smoking and lost weight. I hope all these things will help me to have a healthy pregnancy when I can work up the courage to try again. Please tell me when it's safe to start trying to conceive after a miscarriage.
     
  2. Blue Moon

    Blue Moon New Member

    This is another situation you should speak to your doctor about. Unless you have continuing medical issues, such as diabetes that would make your pregnancy difficult, you should be able to conceive anytime you want. Maybe you are having a psychological block that would prevent you from conceiving a child. You might be having a mild depression over grief of losing your baby. If this is the situation, you could try talking with a grief counselor to help you work through the feelings.
     
  3. Beverly

    Beverly New Member

    I conceived my daughter about a month after having a miscarriage. I'm not sure that was the right timing but that's how it worked out and it's for the best.
     
  4. tom1

    tom1 New Member

    Hi! Thanks a bunch for sharing your condition. Stopping smoking was the best way out. The tar formed during smoking would reduce and allow smooth circulation of the blood. This will ensure blood flow to the reproductive organs is not hindered by anything. For ovulation, the ovarian cells would need a continuous blood flow that is not impurified. When these cells lack the sufficient blood flow, the ova released during ovulation becomes immature for fertilisation to occur. If your condition persists, I would advise you to seek medical attention. Are you aware of BioTex clinic at Kiev in Ukraine? I was once there and was received with open arms. The cost of medication was affordable and never experienced any hiccups during the treatment. To enhance the smooth operation, the clinic is well equipped with up to date facilities for treating infertile patients. I remember vividly I was subjected to an IVF egg donation and I survived so well and I am now a happy mother of a bouncing baby boy. Upon completion, I was supplemented with legalised medical documents for the whole process plus my baby. I was also so much motivated by the place of residence I was taken to. The magnificent hotels adorned with all types of the comforting and consoling decor was so encouraging. At BioTex clinic, I received the best ever treatment every other person would always yearn to have. I now live a life with no regrets and looking after my kid. Thanks to the dedicated staff of BioTex.
     
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  5. adrienne92

    adrienne92 New Member

    hello, there is no exact time when one should start trying for another child. i would suggest that you find out the reasons that lead to your miscarriage before you try again. if they are problems that are associated with your body first repair it then try again. if irreversible look for other ways like surrogacy or ivf depends with the doctors advice.
     
  6. jeannebuck

    jeannebuck New Member

    i would think 1 year , your body will have full recovered ,physically and psychologically
     
  7. saurab015

    saurab015 New Member

    However, once you are physically and emotionally ready, there's no reason to wait. Although many doctors give standard advice to wait three or even six months before trying to conceive again after a miscarriage, there's actually no evidence that this waiting period helps pregnancy outcomes.
     
  8. mikewangari

    mikewangari New Member

    There is no limitation of time. What matters is the adaptability of your body to be able to handle and hold a baby. I am not sure how often you have gone to see a doctor. If given the right treatment by high tech professionals, you will stand again and move on with life. I know it is very challenging and painful to undergo such a pain but take heart. Never shy away from consulting in such a forum such as this as it is through them you learn. Myself I underwent the same but now I am very happy to have a baby. I never thought after miscarriage several times I would be able to conceive. But as I speak I am glad.
     
  9. priyaangel2587

    priyaangel2587 New Member

    Hello jilly, I am so sorry for your loss my dear. I can understand that it is very hard time for you because of miscarriage. Miscarriage is always a very painful moment for any lady and it really hurts. I can really understand your current situation that you do not want to lose another baby. It is a good thing that you want to try again because you should never give up to find success. When it comes to getting ready for another pregnancy after miscarriage, it will always depend on your physical condition, health and age. All these factors will affect the results of another pregnancy after miscarriage. It is very important to live healthy and active Lifestyle if you want to get success with another pregnancy. It is a good thing that you stop smoking and you are also conscious about your weight. I am not professional health expert who can give good advice about your Physical health for another pregnancy but I will suggest you to consult with any professional health expert who can provide good advice about it. If you do not want to take the risk again, I will suggest you give your body some time for preparing after a miscarriage. It is also important to live healthy and active Lifestyle with regular exercise, yoga and good nutrition. Nutrition will really affect the results when you are trying to conceive for another baby. It is very important to stay positive and hopeful towards life if you want to get good results. My blessings are with you my dear friend and I know that you are able to try again to find happiness of baby in your life.
     
  10. Jana1

    Jana1 New Member

    Hi! It's great that you have changed your habits. Health is the most important. I am glad that you want to try conceive again. Try not to think what happened earlier. I think you can try again if you ready.
     
  11. snjeza1

    snjeza1 New Member

    Sorry to hear about your issue. I am glad that you want to start again. If you feel ready just go for it. It is the best time when you feel that your body and mind are ready. I believe you are strong person and I wish you all the best.
     
  12. sara222

    sara222 New Member

    If you feel healthy menthaly and physical you may try. It depends only how you feel, are you ready. Did you ask your doctor about it? If everything is OK try. I wish you all the luck.
     
  13. laura123

    laura123 New Member

    I am so sorry about your loss. It's difficult to move on. I am glad that you want to try again. That is a good sign that you are ready. Maybe it's good to see with yor doctor is everything OK and then try.
     
  14. Lia

    Lia New Member

    I am feeling very bad for your miscarriage. But don’t get stressed. Sometimes it happens due to some health issues. So don’t think that you had lost last time. It's not a necessary same thing will happen again. You are the mother of a daughter. If you got pregnancy at the first time without any complications then why are you worried this time?If you are in good fertile and health condition then there are more chances to get pregnant again. If you are feeling well and prepared physically and emotionally, then you can start trying to conceive.Its good to know that you also manage your health by taking the proper diet. But I think you should also consult with your doc to find that what was the main reason for previous lose. They can find the cause and tell you the solution by go through some checkup or tests. Then you can heal your body in the more efficient way. Do not think about the negative things and stay positive. Take care yourself. Hope for the best. Everything will be fine.
     
  15. Fiercequeen

    Fiercequeen Moderator

    Hey there my dear. I am really sorry to hear about your MC! Sometimes life is so unfair it just doesn't make sense. I hope that you can pull yourself together. It seems that you have tho. That is just great dear. Forward is the only way to go! Evnetually with this attitude you'll make it. I can bet all my savings on this. As far as trying again goes, it depends. There are a lot of factors to take in. Such as your recovery time. For some women it takes less and for some more. Also it depends on the type of MC that you had... Many, many things as you can see. Your best bet is to talk to an MD! Hope you find your answer really soon dear. Wish you all the best. God bless you!
     
  16. Krystal

    Krystal New Member

    I’m so sorry for your loss. After experiencing a miscarriage, it is not unusual for couples to want to try again. In some cases, they may want to wait a few months. At other times, the couple may feel strong enough to want to start again immediately. By and large, there is nothing really barring a couple from doing so. Most miscarriages are a once-off incident with fewer than one percent of women likely to experience a second. The only real limiting factor, therefore, is when ovulation will occur. This can vary from person to person with some women able to conceive within two weeks of a miscarriage while others taking significantly longer.

    Deciding to when to get pregnant after a miscarriage is a highly individual choice and one you should consider it with the input of your doctor and people you trust. Your doctor will be able to tell you if it is medically advisable to conceive and what obstacles, if any, you may be faced with. If the doctor recommends that you wait for medical reasons, you should use some form of contraception until you are given the go-ahead to start. Once you are physically and emotionally ready, there are no obstacles to prevent you from starting anew. Although many doctors will tell you to wait three or even six months before trying again, there is absolutely no evidence that delaying improves pregnancy outcomes. In the end, you need to make an informed judgment based on full information - not only to give yourself the best chance to have a baby but also to protect your overall good health and well-being.
     
  17. Norin

    Norin Moderator

    I'm so sorry about your miscarriage. I had multiple MCs. It was really hard to go through such pain. I know how you feel. I had 3 miscarriages. I still can't recover from unbearable pain inside. I was also very scared to get pregnant again. I had a very deep depression and problems with mental health. My dh and I decided to turn to surrogacy. Actually that was not only our decision but also doctors advise and my health' indicators. Someone may say we "gave up" too fast. But we decided it will be better for me, for us and for our family. I wish you all the best with your ttc process!
     

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