Gazing at infertility

Discussion in 'Pregnant Mommies' started by del, Jul 15, 2017.

  1. del

    del New Member

    All my marriage life, I have been thinking that I was the infertile party in my marriage. Little did I know my hubby had a problem with sperm count. He could ejaculate with much of it but it’s only the semen that was lying to us. We had to put it every day to see to it that we at least have a kid. Luck never came to be. We were also very disappointed any time we tried to conceive. Though we were so much in despair, we never lost hope of trying to conceive and get a baby of our own. After going to the hospital, the doctors only gave us the sperm boosters that never worked. Surprisingly enough, my hubby used to drink alcohol in my absence and pretend that he is so busy working out day and night. It never dawned on him the damage he was making to himself. We had a few disagreements here and there and that is when we agreed to seek advice from a professional doctor. My husband couldn’t believe that I was to be given some another man’s sperms for pregnancy. Me too I was a bit hesitant but I had to accept the situation the way it was and push on. One limitation with that was that the procedure for a donation of sperms from the different hospitals we visited was so complicated. It was also so expensive and up to now, we are languishing in desperation wondering what to do next. We would appreciate if we would find a way as we seem very hopeless and in need of advice. Our life is hanging on trial and error and we would not wish to build our family as such.
     
  2. tom1

    tom1 New Member

    I am feeling sorry for you del. I have been saying that I had encountered problems but yours is too much. I would like to know whether you are aware of ukrainian clinics. They are clinics that are well versed with all fertility treatment both for men and women. I know despite your problem's persistence, you will still get the right dose of treatment. It is in this forum that I have learnt of BioTex clinic in Ukraine. Through the experience of many in this forum, I can really vouch for it. You don't have to worry any more del, lets try these ukrainian clinics and I know we will get the best. Me too I am also planning to head there.
     
  3. mikewangari

    mikewangari New Member

    Never look down upon yourself. After such a long struggle, my husband was able to become fertile again. It was a very merry time for both of us. If the problem still exists, we were planning to book a flight to Ukraine for specialised treatment. Never did we give up the chase. We remained strong and went all the way to Ukraine. My husband was never hesitant as I we were to undergo sperm donation. We did it and it was very successful. I can vouch for the clinics especially the one we went to called BioTex clinic.
     
  4. kelly calvin

    kelly calvin New Member

    Hello,

    I am here to help you on this. I would like to say that taking a medical decision is the best option for the patients who are suffering from infertility. First of all, i would say that you should never panic about your infertility. Infertility problem is found only in rare cases. Positive thinking and attitude is the key to success in long run. The second most important thing is you should mark you periodic cycle that will help you get an idea to understand your conceiving status. Your period must be regular and on proper time. Having period timely is a clear indication that you are healthy and able to conceive a baby in a natural way. If your husband has the problem try to go with the IVF technology I am sure you will find some help there.
     
  5. shweta

    shweta New Member

    Hi dear. I am sorry to hear about your problem. Motherhood is the best gift by God to us women. You did a great job by seeking help in a public forum. I faced the same problem you are facing but it was me who has the problem. My husband supported me very much and now I am a happy mother of a baby girl. There are a lot of ways now to solve the problem in medical science. Ukraine is first and foremost choice of a foreigner to get reliable and highest success rate treatment. There are research persons who are working day and night to solve any kind of problem in the reproductive system. My husband took me there and we met a gynecologist, who was reputed and he helped me a lot in gaining pregnancy. I will suggest you don’t panic and go there as there is a treatment for both men and women. Don’t worry soon you will give birth to a beautiful and healthy baby. My best wishes are with you. Be safe and stay blessed.
     
  6. RES

    RES Member

    Hello, Del! I know what you've been through. I think you should go for IVF. It is better because sperm can be collected from your husband to achieve fertilization. I think it will affect your marriage if the sperm is taken from another man. In IVF, you're the mother and your husband is the father.
     
  7. RES

    RES Member

    I heard that there is a good specialist in Ukraine. I think you better check it out.
     
  8. shannon

    shannon Member

    Hello, I'm really sorry about your condition. I think you should contact to any other clinic.
     

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