There were times in the past, when I felt very alone and unloved, even when surrounded by those who love me. Later on, I found out that I was going through mild depression, which often distorts true feelings and makes one feel completely alone even in a crowd. Did you ever feel this way?
Even a mild depression can mess with your feelings. You should discuss any such feelings with your doctor as it can easily be treated.
Yes dear Many times also felt the same way. It is definitely because of your hurt feelings towards something. Even I have been through a mild depression and the effects are still visible to me. I have become totally aloof and I don’t feel like talking to anyone even at times when my parents call I don’t answer their calls 3 times out of 5. I hardly hang out with my friends and if they plan I always cancel at the last moment so now the situation is that they have stopped asking me out. My boyfriend says I have changed thoroughly and he is also losing interest in me but somehow I am not feeling bad about it. A few days back I was invited to my boss’s wedding party and I obviously had to go and trust me I was feeling like an alien sitting in between so many people. These people obviously knew me bcz my boss has been my childhood friend as well still I couldn’t interact with anyone bcz I didn’t feel like. So you are not alone in this. There are so many people under the sun who are going through the same and also facing the same challenges. However I would certainly recommend you to start meditating as it helps greatly. I do try to meditate at least 4 times a week and I have become happier inside and therefore in a condition to advise you. Also get a pet, but be aware that it is a long term commitment. Pet’s shower you with unconditional love, Just what you want in the current scenario. I hope I am right and I hope I helped you. Will think of you while meditating, hope you get peace.
Hi My elder brother felt the same way when he was in school. In childhood, he had a mole on his forehead because of which his friends started calling him a girl. He was going through a very tough time. He started isolating himself in a room and he didn’t talk with me also. I tried him to talk to me and share his heart out. But, he just said leave me alone. Sometimes, I noticed his tears rolling down from his cheeks. I was very surprised to see my brother crying. I had never seen my brother crying earlier. He is brilliant in his studies and there was no reason for him to cry. I told my parents that he cries in alone. My parents asked him a lot and he replied his friends were the culprit that led him to cry. He uttered silently “they call me a girl”. After listening to him I was about to laugh at him but, I controlled. My parents went to his school next day and I don’t know what he did there. But, since then everything was OK.
Depression comes when you keep on thinking about neagtive things around. It is true that when we are in hard times, to be happy is so difficult. You better go into a vacation to clear your heart and mind.
HI, dear doesn't face the depression at all. Whatever you are growing through will help you to move forward in the life. I believe it takes lot of time and you need to beileve that you need to move forward in your life. I have been working on it. Just work on yurself and you will become the better person..
