don't know what to do

Discussion in 'Trying to Conceive' started by space24, Aug 16, 2018.

  1. space24

    space24 New Member

    Hello, everyone! You know, I really need your advice. Let me share my story first. My husband and I have always wanted to be parents. We have been trying for 6 years. But unfortunately, there was not any result. That is why we turned to a doctor. He said that I cannot have my own children. We were so upset. But then we decided not to give up. First, we wanted to adopt a child. Then we understood that surrogacy is one more way to create a full family. It is even better than adoption. We wanted to try it. But I met my friend and she advised to turn to IVF. She said that it was one of the best ways we should use to solve the problem. So, we started to find out for the information about IVF. And now I think that it is really a good solution. We decided to try to turn to it. But there are still so many questions. I want to ask you for advice. Maybe there are some people on the forum who can help me. If you turned to IVF, please share your experience. I am interested just in everything about it. Every piece of information is important. First of all, I want to know where to start. I don’t know what clinic to choose. Actually, I know not so much about the procedure in general. What are the most important points about it? I would be very glad to get the answers.
     
  2. tina

    tina New Member

    Hi, dear! I am really sorry to hear the story. And I think I can help you a little bit. First of all, I need to say that it is great that you are not trying to give up. This is really important in your situation. It definitely will help to achieve your goal. You know, I also turned to IVF several years ago. So I think, I can help you. I also think that this is the best way to become parents. In this case your child would be completely yours. And it is really great. Well, let’s talk about your questions. First of all, you need to start with your thoughts. You shouldn’t think that something may go wrong. Just forget about it. Believe that everything will be fine. When you feel that you are ready to start the procedure, you may start to look for a clinic. This is one of the most important steps. You need to be sure, that a clinic will really help you. I suggest you to visit several different clinics. You will be able to compare them and find the best one. Talk to doctors. These people will help your child born. You need to believe them. If you don’t like the doctors, don’t choose a clinic. Actually, there are lot’s of good clinics in different countries. You may choose any of them. The procedure is not painful, don’t be afraid of it. It won’t take a lot of time, if you don’t need any additional treatment. Just listen to the doctor’s advice. Everything will be fine, just believe in a success.
     
  3. space24

    space24 New Member

    Thank you for your answer! I am so glad to get this help. Thank you for the useful information. You know, I can’t help agreeing with your words. I also think that I need to be sure that I am ready for the procedure. I still a bit worry about it. But my husband tries to cheer me up. You know, this really helps. He does everything to help me not to worry so much. I know it, and this support makes me stronger. That is why I know that everything will be great. I believe that our goal will be definitely achieved. I know that we will be able to become parents. I also think that it is a really good idea to visit several clinics. It is really important to trust doctors. You know, we want to turn to one of the clinics in USA. I have heard a lot of information about it. They say, this is pretty good one. But we also have heard about one of the Ukrainian clinics. First we want to visit these two clinics. And if we don’t like them, we will think about some other. Maybe you can suggest some more clinics? By the way, can you please tell a bit more details about the procedure? For example, what treatment should I get? What is the additional treatment? In what case should I get it? What about the food? Should I avoid some products? Maybe I need to take some medicine during the procedure? Maybe you can recommend or tell me something else? Please, it is really important.
     
  4. tina

    tina New Member

    Oh, well, I really have some information to share. I will be really glad to help you. You know, it is really great that your spouse supports you. It is so important in this situation. If you really want to become parents, I think we will be able to do it. Well, let’s talk about clinics. It is good that you want to visit different clinics. You said that one of them was Ukrainian. You know, I turned to the clinic in Ukraine too. It is called BioTexCom. Well, you asked me about clinics that I can recommend. I can say that this clinic I can recommend for sure. I really liked it. It is really great one. First of all, their doctors are true specialist. They always know what to do. They always ready to help. The conditions I liked too. I can say that the clinic tries to do everything to make all the clients feel comfortable. They really care about people. You know, they have their own video blog. If you are interested in it, I can share the link. You will need to take some medicine. But more details about it you will learn from your doctor. Sometimes, if a woman has some problems with her health, she may need some more treatment. But it won’t take much time. As for the food, I can say that the most important thing is to eat a lot of vitamins. Fruits, vegetables, milk – don’t forget about these products. But you should forget about coffee and black tea. Alcohol and smoking is not allowed too. That’s it.
     
  5. space24

    space24 New Member

    You know, I am interested in the clinic BioTexCom. So, I would like to know more about it. I will be glad if you shared the link on the video blog. What do they tell people about? Is this information really important? I have heard that this clinic has very high percentage of success. Is it true? And what about prices? Are they high?
     
  6. tina

    tina New Member

    So, I will be glad to tell you about these things. First of all, this is the link. Well, I think that you really will find there a lot of useful information. I think that it is great that they have this video blog. The videos are not long, but they contain a lot of information. They answer the most popular questions about the clinic. Also, they tell about IVF in general. I think that it is very important for all people who wants to turn to IVF. These videos help to understand a lot of things. So, I think that it is worthy to see them. By the way, there some that can tell you more details about the apartments. Oh, there is one more video you need to see. It is called "I hate Biotexcom". Pretty useful one. Well, all these videos can tell about small details. But about important details. Hope that this will be helpful for you. As for the percentage, it is really high. The specialists do their best to make their clients’ dreams come true. But sometimes happens that the first attempt is unsuccessful. The reasons may be different. But on most cases the second one doesn’t fail. So, in this situation don’t think about giving up. Find power in yourself and try again. Well, prices in clinic are usual. I mean, they are not much higher than in the other clinics. But they are not lower too. I think the prices are normal, that is why most people can turn to this clinic and don’t worry about it. Well, that’s it. If you have some questions, ask me. I will be glad to help. Hope, you will be fine!
     
  7. tina

    tina New Member

    Thank you very much!
     

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