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Discussion in 'Trying to Conceive' started by vennessa william, Jul 29, 2017.

  1. vennessa william

    vennessa william New Member

    hi all, I am new here. I am a married women working in a private firm. My husband also works in the same firm. We have been married since 2013, till now I haven’t conceived. My husband and in laws are very supportive. Since childhood I have irregular period but that is not a serious issue I think. I don’t know exactly why I am unable to conceive. due to this i am becoming mentally ill . We are also to adopt a child but that didn't work. We have invested a lot of money and time but nothing actually happened. Can anyone suggest what we are supposed to do? We belong to a middle class family so investing a lot money is really a big issue. But we understand that without investing money it is impossible to opt for IVF or surrogacy.
     
    Last edited: Aug 21, 2017
  2. malisha maya

    malisha maya New Member

    hi, you can visit a clinic name biotexcom based in Ukraine.
     
  3. asaliu291

    asaliu291 New Member

    The name of the clinic is biotexcom, they are Ukraine based infertility clinic. Biotexcom is the only clinic in the world that provides 100% guaranteed result even for those clients who have already lost any hope for successful treatment. They are proud of being faithful to this principle for already almost 10 years. 100% guaranteed result is provided even for those clients who had unsuccessful infertility treatments in other clinics all over the world. In most medical centers, you can be approved for surrogacy program only if they are absolutely confident that the very first attempt will be successful. Biotexcom benefits from “All-inclusive” system. “All-inclusive” system means that all expenses and possible risks are covered by the clinic. They take care of all exciting moments during your stay here so that you don’t have to worry about anything. All you have to pay for are your air tickets. They cover all other relevant expenses. Such as all medical expenses including fees for surrogate mother and egg donor. All unforeseen and urgent expenses such as preterm birth, caesarian section and rehabilitation are also covered by the clinic. Also you will stay in comfortable apartment with attendant stuff: housemaid, babysitter. They will take care of your meals, clean the house, babysit and help you stay in contact with clinic staff. Our driver will not only take you to and from the clinic and other relevant establishments, but also can take you for sightseeing around the city if you wish. That is not all for more visit their website.
     
  4. adelwil

    adelwil New Member

    Have you had previous tests? Or consulted with a doctor? You should first have some reference to see what your problem is.
    You can visit a doctor at a fertility clinic. Fertility treatments cost a lot of money, I think you know that. But there are still some with good prices and excellent results. If you are interested in surrogacy, I can recommend the BioTex clinic. It is located in Ukraine and has years of experience with surrogacy. It is a better option than adoption, which as you say, takes a long time. There I am sure that they will attend to you in the best way and offer you the best service.
    You can call them for more information, even by Skype. Children born there by surrogacy have been very healthy and parents have not experienced legal problems. Of course, they are very professional about this. Remember that surrogacy is a serious issue for both parents and the baby and clinic. They will make sure that everything can go smoothly without any problem.
    Good luck
    Xx
     
  5. priyaangel2587

    priyaangel2587 New Member

    Hello my dear friend, I am so sorry to know about your problem and I can really understand your problem. It is a good thing that you are sharing your personal problem with us and I hope you will get good advice on this forum. It is a good platform where you can get good advice with other members. First of all, I will recommend you know to lose hope and happiness because of this problem. It is very important to have hope and positive attitude towards life if you want to get success. Infertility is very common problem these days and many couples are facing this issue. The treatment solutions are also available because Medical Science is very advanced now. I can understand that you tried your best and you invested a lot of money in such treatments. Maybe you didn’t get good treatment solution and there can be many reasons for it. If you want to get reliable and cost effective treatment solution, I will suggest you consult with any professional health expert in any certified infertility clinic. I heard about many good infertility clinics in Ukraine where couples got positive results. Ukraine is a preferred country where couples can get solution for infertility treatment and it is also cost effective as compared to most of Western countries. You should never lose hope and happiness because you can also get good treatment solution in any certified infertility clinic. When it comes to get solution with surrogacy and adoption, you can also find many reproduction centres in this country where you can get help to find a baby. I know that you are a strong woman and you will be able to fight with this problem in a proper way.
     
  6. RES

    RES Member

    Hello, Vanessa! Priya is right that Ukraine is best for you if you want to pursue IVF or surrogacy. Just bear this in your mind that what is money after all if it is your happiness is at stake. Do not be afraid to spend money if you know that it will make you complete and remove the pains in your heart.
     
  7. snjeza1

    snjeza1 New Member

    I also heard about this clinic in Ukraine. Everyone talks about it. They say that is great clinic with expert doctors. And that is not to expensive. Contact them. Then you will know better. Explain them you problem. I am sure they will know what can you do.
     
  8. sara222

    sara222 New Member

    I was facing infertility. Nothing was so hard to me like this issue. I almost lose hope. Don't let that you lose hope. I was in BioTex clinic. I have only good words for them. You will not regret. Contact them as soon as possible.
     
  9. Lucy_Hale

    Lucy_Hale New Member

    Hey there! As per my experience, there are certain clinics with affordable procedures of IVF or surrogacy programmes! I got my IVF treatment with donor eggs at Biotexcom and my experience there was really good! They had these all-inclusive programmes which are all affordable and the environment was homely as well! Their success rates are outstanding, and they even refund you the money if you fail all the permitted cycles in the programme! There might be more clinics like that! No doubt, it requires extensive search before you take your final decision! good luck!
     
  10. hally

    hally New Member

    Hello Vannessa! I'm so sorry you have problems with your ttc. It makes me sad that even adoption didn't work for you. First of all you should visit a doctor. You should check your fertility to know what is wrong with you. Your husband should do the same. You’ll know for sure what the reason of your inability to conceive. Then you will be able to move on. I hope you will find answers to your questions! I wish you good luck!
     
  11. Simmons

    Simmons New Member

    Hi dear. The first thing you need to do is figure out the reason behind your inability to conceive. You can’t solve a problem unless you identify it first. As far as the money matters are concerned, I’m afraid these treatments won’t come cheap. Despite that, with enough research and dedication there are chances that you can find a good solution. One that is a perfect balance between effectiveness, efficiency, and affordability. Good luck!
     
  12. Stacynun

    Stacynun New Member

    Infertility is such a popular problem nowadays. I really don’t understand why it happens to us. I have always been trying to live a healthy life. I was eating healthy food. I was swimming and running a lot since childhood. I spend a couple of hours a week in the gym. Once a year my husband takes me to the seaside. But, anyway, I’m unable to get pregnant. It is so unfair. There are a lot of women, which get pregnant easily. They don’t even want to have kids. But they get pregnant and then they give their kids away to the adoption centers. And why aren’t you allowed to adopt? What’s wrong with this world? I will never understand this.
     
  13. Celinda

    Celinda New Member

    Sorry to hear about your condition :(

    If you are facing irregular periods since your childhood, my question is have you ever contacted doctors/specialists and know what they said? What could be the reason?
    About the options you are talking about - I think surrogacy is best if you are sure that you can't conceive. You might also want to consult a couple of doctors before settling down with alternatives.
    Once you are done considering that and the answer is still surrogacy, be sure to do a research on your own first. US clinics are very expensive and most people find European centers to be the best.
     
  14. Fiercequeen

    Fiercequeen Moderator

    How are you deary? I hope that things are fine at your end... Infertility treatments are super expensive that is a sure thing. It is sad that sometimes people touched by infertility can hardly afford the procedures. I know that surrogacy can cost up to $ 60000. If you think about it that is super scary. How can somebody afford that price. However there are new techniques that are making both processes easier. This usually leads to cheaper prices. Eventually the prices will get very low, I think so... However that will take a few decades. I don't think that you can wait that much! Your best option now would be to find a cheaper clinic. I think that Ukraine has the cheapest clinics. If you want to find even cheaper alternatives. There is always finding asomebody on your own.... However this alternative is more rsiky and you might end up not getting your child at the end. Keep your head up dear and hope for the best.
     
  15. Norin

    Norin Moderator

    I'm sorry about your unsuccessful TTC. I've also faced problems with conceiving and I know how you feel now. I understand that this is really hard to move on when nothing works for you. Unfortunately there is nothing you can do to fasten the process. But don't be harsh with yourself. Just give yourself some time. We were TTC for 8 years. This process can take even more time. Remember that you have a family which needs you. So don't put your TTC in the center of your life, because it won't let you to enjoy it. Don't give up and keep trying! I wish you all the best, dear!
     
  16. Aimen

    Aimen New Member

    I am really sorry about you unsuccessful treatment. Irregular period is not the serious issue. I think you have some other problem because of that you are facing this infertility issue. Adopting a child is always a good option for those who are unable to make a baby. This is so important to know about your problems. And still you are not sure about your problems. Firstly you should consult your doctor on regular basis. Because your doctor can tell your accurate about the problems your body is facing. After that, You will be treated according to that. You don't have to worry much because having a baby now days is not as much complex. There are many treatments and solutions regarding this. I am facing infertility issue from past 7 years and finally looking for surrogacy process. I am finding best clinics for surrogacy process. And i found many good clinics. Some of them are expensive and some of them are not too much expensive as they offer different packages. One of them is clinic in Ukraine, i am not too much sure about this clinic but by reading too much good things about this clinic. I am thinking to visit this clinic soon. I wish you recover soon from infertility issue.
     
  17. Alix

    Alix New Member

    Hey there hope you're doing good. Having your in-laws support is the most important thing. I think you should search more about treatments like IVF and surrogacy. These treatments are really effective and are being successfully done. The key is to visit a good clinic who is professional at their work. I visited this clinic abroad they were really good at what they did. A lot of foreigners were visiting them and are really popular on these forums as well. I was honestly, in so much relief by being their client as they handled everything with extra care.
     
  18. lilllian

    lilllian New Member

    I know exactly how you feel. My husband and I are ttc for many years. We've gone through multiple IVFs. All of them failed. This is really hard for us. Especially this is a tough thing for me as I'm the reason of our inability to have children. You should definitely see a doctor. The fact that you're still not pregnant doesn't mean there is something wrong with your health. But making medical check will just clarify all things out. So you will continue your ttc knowing your health condition. I wish you best of luck!
     
  19. Eli

    Eli New Member

    I know, it is natural to expect become parent after the marriage soon. But we never think that there can be some issue to get pregnant. But don’t lose hope. Irregular periods is not a big issue. But To know the main reason why you can’t pregnant, consult with a healthcare provider. They will take some medical checkups and blood test to find the cause. They suggest you all the possible solutions to solve your issue. A number of clinics are available that are providing the therapy or treatments. No doubt it can be expensive but I think having a child is more valuable than anything else. Without a child every family is incomplete. I also go through the IVF which i got from the biotexcom which was successful.Honestly, while going for test, I was unsure that I would get pregnant . But with grace of God Now i am mother of a healthy and cute child. This clinic offers the different packages included all expenses of whole process. If you want you can also search for it. Hope this will help you.
     
  20. Jessica_x

    Jessica_x New Member

    I'm so sorry about your situation. I'm shocked that even adoption failed for you. If you've been trying to get pregnant for a year without success it's time to get help. Your first stop should be at your regular gynecologist. Your partner may also want to see urologist. You don't need to go straight to a fertility clinic. In fact, most clinics prefer you have a referral from your primary gynecologist or physician.

    The next step is some basic fertility testing. This includes blood work for the woman and a semen analysis for the man. Make sure your partner has the semen analysis before you start treatment! Clomid can't help you if there are male factors involved. Depending on your symptoms, testing may also include an HSG, vaginal ultrasound, or diagnostic laparoscopy. These tests may or may not lead to a fertility diagnosis. Sometimes, finding out what's wrong exactly takes time.

    Depending on the results of your fertility tests, your gynecologist may recommend treatment. If basic fertility treatment isn't successful, or if your test results suggest treatments that go beyond your gynecologist's purview, you may be referred to a fertility specialist. This usually means finding and choosing a fertility clinic. Be sure when calling fertility clinics to be clear on how much the initial consultation costs and discuss the fees ahead of time for any recommended tests or treatments. Consider travel and lost work time if you're looking at clinics far away. I hope you’ll find the reason of your inability to conceive asap. So you could do right steps which will lead you to parenthood!
     

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