The painful dose of my infertility

Discussion in 'Trying to Conceive' started by mge, Jul 9, 2017.

  1. mge

    mge New Member

    I have tried to conceive but I haven’t found a solution. Anytime I attempted, I could not and failed completely. I underwent miscarriage four times and incurred a lot of expenses from that. From hospital to hospital I could not get the right treatment. Friends misled me and the doctors referred me to very expensive clinics for treatment. Above all, I could not find the right treatment. I suffered inwardly and my health deteriorated. To invigorate myself, I tried to take an ounce of cocaine just to keep myself high. I started taking life so less seriously. I was always given the wrong advice and the horrible effects that followed were beyond my understanding. After having a caucus with my medical doctor, this time totally under the influence of drugs, I was warned to stop it completely and if not, I would face dire consequences. I never heard the doctor’s plea and decided to ignore. Later on, I found myself on the losing end when I got pregnant and I gave birth to a premature baby. The baby had placenta abruptions which almost scared me to death. From that time going forward I had never conceived and even after spending a huge shank on money for treatment and IVF donation. I need someone to advise me.
     
  2. tom1

    tom1 New Member

    I can really feel the pain in your heart. Spending huge shanks of money with no success of a child is very demoralizing. Are you aware of BioTex clinic? Having tried all other clinics without success, I made it here. My joy of parenthood was regained here and went home happy. The process at BioTex clinic is legalized with a success of 100%. The medical personnel are very professional endowed with the requisite skills for the task. At BioTex, you will save a huge sum of money without stress. And in the process premature birth occurs, all the expenses are incurred by the clinic. So it’s that good.
     
  3. dazzyshahu

    dazzyshahu New Member

    I am so sorry for your infertility problem. I can understand your pain at this time. It is time to handle this infertility and miscarriage problem with strong heart. You should choose positivity way to get sufficient energy and confidence to handle this difficult situation in easy and effective way. You should not lose hope. Today we are living in advance medical world where many medical researches are working day and night to defeat infertility and miscarriage problem in easy and effective way. It is not good news that you are not aware about your health. You should be very informative to understand your body signal very well. We try many effective methods but not succeed. We consult with the popular gynecologist of Ukraine to get permanent solution of my infertility in advance medical research based treatment available in medical history. Now I am happy and healthy enjoying my marriage life with a baby gift that fulfills my whole life with happiness. It is your turn to defeat this miscarriage problem to defeat infidelity demon with dream baby like me. You should have strong will power that boosts your confidence in this negative situation.

    This is golden opportunity for me to overcome this horrible problem in your life. I want to suggest you to follow these powerful tips and tricks to overcome this horrible situation in easy way. It clear indicates that your body hormone level is not in balance. You can maintain your body hormone level with proper balanced diet and healthy lifestyle that provide proper blood supply to all reproduction system. You can easily overcome successful life with powerful yoga and meditation to see magic effect on your health. You should maintain high hemoglobin level to conceive easily.
     
  4. RES

    RES Member

    I am so sorry to hear your problem. Your doctor is right. You have to detoxify your body now. I think you can consult your doctor about it. Tell him to help you leave drugs. Ask him/her what are the things you can do to have a baby. Please start a new beginning with no drug at all so that your life will be complete. You can try IVF if you are really infertile.
     
  5. mishavailable

    mishavailable New Member

    Hi. I am really sorry from the bottom of my heart. I know what you are feeling right now and can understand your situation. I also had gone though the same experience in my life and I was feeling low in this condition. But however I overcome it and get the best solution only at Lotus Clinic. Although you have visited to many hospitals but surely it is the best and reliable treatment clinic in Ukraine where you can get the guaranteed solution of your problem. Now you do not need to lose the hope and keep the mind positive in every condition. I make you sure you will be able to get fertile and conceive the baby. You are really lucky who are going to get the treatment at Lotus Clinic and get the complete support of the expertise. You can make your dream true and able to become the mother of the healthy child. You are living in the advance medical research generation where everything is possible and you can conceive the baby. Whether you choose the IVF or surrogacy, Lotus Clinic is second to none in providing the best solution.

    Infertility issues encounters with most of the women. It happens due to the abnormal periods and imbalance of the hormones. But now you can get the high quality of eggs and able to get fertile too. You can defeat the infertility issues and become the mother and make the dream true. There are 20% of women are facing the infertility issues and choose the surrogacy to conceive the baby. You need to change your schedule and remain conscious about health. Hope for the best and stay blessed.
     
  6. Kristina

    Kristina New Member

    Hi, Mge. I can feel your emotions and your disappointment. but Before you and your partner start treatment, talk about how far you want to go with treatment. For example, you may want to try medicine but don't want to have surgery. You may change your mind during your treatment, but it's good to start with an idea of what you want your limits to be. if your problem with ovulating, the treatment may include medications such as Clomiphene. It stimulates your ovaries to release eggs. Metformin is used to treat polycystic ovary syndrome. If your fallopian tubes are blocked, treatment may include tubal surgery. I hope this information helps you to find the right direction in your problem. God bless you.
     
  7. Fiercequeen

    Fiercequeen Moderator

    How hard can life hit? Like for real... Is there a breaking point, a limit? How can someone go through all of this? Why does someone deserve to go through so many bad things, one after another. I don't know what else to say dear. Your story has made me literally shed tears. I feel so bad about you, I can't fin the words to try to help. I just know one thing about you... Things will get better. Not because I found a edgy quote on tumblr that said so, but because you deserve it. You have been through this much in your life and now all that is left to come is, I guarantee you, relief and happiness. Maybe the right things haven't started to happen yet. Believe me though, they will start to happen, one after the other. You know there is always surrogacy after IVF fails. Or maybe you want to do the noble thing and adopt. Either way you have our absolute support. Wish you well honey.
     
  8. Emma clarke

    Emma clarke New Member

    Hi mge! It is very painful to know about your infertility problems. It is really a matter of concern. About 20% of the women face the infertility issue. Many women get to know the reason behind it and many don't get the answer to that. I know it is very hard to believe that you can not have a baby and complete your family but you need to face the truth and look for better solutions. I have also been facing this problem for years. I have read you post completely that is why first of I want to advice you that you should become brave enough to face your problems. Gain strength and look for the solutions instead of getting too much hopeless and ruin your life. You have to make a good future for yourself. As I am also facing this problem, I have consulted different gynecologists and had treatment from them. I am still hoping for the best and trying. In early years I was unaware of the reason that why am i facing the infertility issue. after a proper checkup I cam to know that I am having a heart disease due to which this issue has occurred. I also suggest you that get proper checkup and find the reason behind this problem. Then consult gynecologists and look for a good one. You should also try for a treatment first and then see the results. After that you still don't get pregnant, then go for some other solutions. Some gynecologists have suggested the procedure of egg donation and embryo plantation. These two procedures have different costs and it depends on you that which is suitable according to your wealth conditions. I think you should consult some gynecologists and then see which solution is the most suggested ans then go for that. I repeat again don't lose hope and don't do any silly activities that can cause more problems for you. I hope this reply will be of use for you. Take care.
     
  9. priyaangel2587

    priyaangel2587 New Member

    Hello my dear, I am so sorry to know about your problem and I know that you are going through very hard and sad situation in your life. It is always a dream of ladies to get happiness of a baby in life and I know that you also want such amazing time in your life. It feels really bad when you do not get desired results after so many efforts and after wasting so much money. I can really understand your situation and I hope you will also find good solution for it. It is a good thing that you are saying your problem with us because you can always get good advice at this forum. First of all, you should not lose hope and happiness in your life because it is very important to stay hopeful and positive towards your life. I also faced many problems when I was trying to conceive and I was facing problem of infertility. I was very stressed and depressed at that time. I didn’t give up and I consulted with many health experts. Finally, I got good treatment solution from a certified infertility clinic in Ukraine. Ukraine is one of the preferred countries where you can get good treatment solution and they have high success rate. Many infertile couples got good treatment solution with help of professional health experts in these clinics. I hope you will also find any certified clinic where you can get good treatment solution. Giving up is never a solution and I will suggest you to keep trying until you get success. It is very important to become strong internally and I know that you are able to do it. My blessings are with you my dear friend and I hope you will get good news soon.
     
  10. geferia

    geferia New Member

    Hi, Mge. I can feel your emotions and your disappointment. I think your problem isn’t very big but you have not felt overstress. My sister married 8 years ago, she failed to conceive naturally. so, she tried IVF treatment for 3 times but all of them failed. She felt sad, depressed, and she became hopeless. I was so tense and worried about her. I want to help her so I consult my friends who had successful IVF treatment with the cheapest cost and high quality. Some of them told about the best clinic at Kyiv in Ukraine that called Biotexcom. I told my sister and her husband about this clinic. The hope comes back to their life again. They went to this clinic that supports IVF and they surprise that the clinic provides them with transportation, accommodation, and food for free. After more procedures, my sister had a successful IVF. Everything was fantastic and I high quality. She didn’t spend a huge shank on money for treatment and IVF donation. I think you may desire to visit Biotexcom clinic.
     
  11. prettywmn

    prettywmn New Member

    Your story seems to be really awful, dear. You have to do something to change your life. To say truth, drugs weren’t a good idea at all. You had to do everything possible to conceive, but not to destroy your life. It was a huge mistake and you know it. So, it’s time to fix your past mistakes. I’m sure we all have what to fix in our lives. That’s why I’m here to support you as much as I can do it.

    A lot of women are suffering from infertility nowadays. I was one of them a couple of years ago. I remember how awful it was. I couldn’t believe that it has happened to me. I felt like my life was over. I’ve gone through different useless treatments and even IVF. Nothing helped me to conceive. Infertility was about to destroy my life. At that moment I was reading a lot of fertility forums. A lot of women were writing about their surrogacy experience at BioTexCom. I asked my husband to contact them and to discuss our situation. He did what I asked. He talked to a doctor and found out that surrogacy is a great option for us. That’s why we decided to go there and to try it out. It took a couple of weeks to go through all the necessary tests. Then we signed an agreement and they found the surrogate for us. Everything has happened so fast. Seems like I closed my eyes and here we go, our son was in our house. In your situation you have to check if you still produce eggs. If you do, it’s great. You can have your biological baby born by the surrogate. By the way, even if your eggs are not valid, you can go for an egg donation. So, choose whatever you want, but don’t waste your time doing stupid things.
     
  12. Stacynun

    Stacynun New Member

    Unfortunately, a lot of women are suffering from infertility nowadays. I don’t know why it happens to us. But it is really painful. And what is the worth, we have to go through it without any support. As usual, men don’t give a hand to their infertile wives. I honestly hope that your husband supports you. My husband broke up with me because of my infertility. It was a huge disaster for me. I was depressed for a long time. My mother thought I would kill myself. I’m glad that I survived because my life has changed. Now I know that it is very important to stay strong whatever happens. Life is so changeable. You made a lot of mistakes in the past but you have to keep living. Forget your previous life. You received a lot of recommendations from girls above. I completely agree that you should try the surrogacy. My kid was born by the surrogate and I appreciate my second husband for his support. He found the clinic for us and we received a chance to become parents. I’m sure that you can follow my example.

    During the surrogacy process I met a lot of infertile couples. Most of them were going through surrogacy. Some of them decided to adopt. As for me both options are great. It’s up to you what to choose. You have to stay strong and your life will change. But it depends on you if it changes or not.

    I also spent a lot of money for IVF. Unfortunately, it didn’t help. That’s why there’s no need to waste your time and money for useless treatments. Start surrogacy process and you will not regret.
     
  13. phoeben

    phoeben New Member

    Wow… I don’t know how to react, dear. I’m very sorry because of your infertility issue. But I’ve always been against any drugs. I understand why you did it. You were stressed out. But there’s always the way out. You had to be stronger to cope with this problem. You have chosen to give up and I am very sorry. Now you have to solve twice more problems. If IVF treatment didn’t help you the only thing you can do is to find the surrogate. In this case your baby will be genetically related to you. Also, you can adopt. As for me it is a great option too. But you have to be sure that you will never try drugs again. Having a baby is a great responsibility. You have to understand this. You will have to take a good care of your child. No one will let you adopt a baby if you are not trustworthy. Make sure that you are ready to change your life. I desperately want you to feel better. That’s why I decided to write this post.

    By the way, are you married? I hope the answer is Yes. It is very important to have someone who is supporting you. My husband has done a lot to solve our infertility problem. He found a great clinic to enter the surrogacy program. A lot of clinics in Europe offer such programs legally. I think you should take this option into account. As far as I know surrogacy helped a lot of infertile couples to become parents. It really works and it’s a great option for you.
     
  14. jannie

    jannie New Member

    Hi there, I feel your pain for sure sweetheart. I am sorry for all the worries and loses. I am highly against drugs specially for such issues. Have you consulted with any upgrade psychologist? Do consult with at least 3 doctors before any decision. I am disappointed to see your sadness. Don’t lose your heart. You must try once better thrice. I would love if you get pregnant again and take your mind towards all the positivity. Please don’t be depressed? A baby need more and more love and attention. With all this stress (useless to take) how your existing baby will get a mother’s love? You must be happy and strong for your child. You must ttc again. I would love If you have another baby. Staying positive will help you at its best. I wish you all the best. Take care of your diet and health.
     
  15. elissa214

    elissa214 New Member

    It’s sad to hear about your deplorable condition dear. Life can get hard, things can go wrong. However no matter what, you have to stay strong. First you need to detoxify your body. For that you need to talk to your doctor. He will guide you that, what to do next. You might need to join a rehabilitation centre. It may be difficult, however for health and well being you will have to do this. After your rehab treatment, you need to look forward to treat infertility. Do you have any insurance plan? In which country you are in? Next step would be to consult an RE. He may do proper diagnosis and tell you about the treatment. I hope everything goes well. However you need to take things seriously. Check out the finance options you have. Do get back to me. Do keep us updated regarding your situation.
     
  16. Ssuezy

    Ssuezy Member

    Why hasn't IVF worked so far? Has the cause been established? Here is another vote for BioTexCom. It is a very nice clinic. I just got my BFP. Here you get multiple trials if you wish to sign a multiple contract. I got lucky first trial. Plus the economy package is just €40k. Wish you the best.
     
  17. Paige

    Paige New Member

    I just want to add that I agree with Ssuezy. I have only the good words for BioTexCom. Hope you solved your problems by now. My ladies, I wish you all the best in life.
     
  18. Isabella

    Isabella New Member

    Its some thing very painful. You have to remain strong and face these situations. If you want to have a baby and don't want much complications in your life then go for a process of surrogacy in Ukraine they are providing best options and treatments.
     
  19. lydia321

    lydia321 New Member

    You have shared such a heartbreaking story my heart cries for you Life can be so cruel for us but we have to deal with it as it is. it hurts when someone you love gives you advice that leads to harm.I am a woman just like you, I was 14 weeks pregnant with my first baby and lost him due to an accident which also took away my ability to give birth.I am also confused about where I want to take this because I really want a family of my own, I am currently looking into adoptions but my heart just doesn't seem in the right place for it. My husband is completely fertile and I might also be looking into surrogacy as well. It is complicated for sure and all the paperwork here in the US makes it even tougher.I have been in contact with some clinics but I would like to disclose half information to you. Let's see where it goes from here, ill keep you updated on how my journey goes, best of luck for yours , much love and kisses.
     
  20. jeje

    jeje New Member

    hi there! for you to feel this distress is natural but you must keep your calm as you should know that this all is just natural and nothing and nobody even you yourself is not responsible for this.You should think about surrogacy as a very open-minded option.people around you are using it and are living happily with their kids.with your age, it is advisable to go for it now.For this purpose, there are plenty of clinics like the clinic in Ukraine which has facilities not available in many of other clinics.They are quite reasonable or we can say cheap and offer a lot of things.My friend has tried it and recommends to everybody
     

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