i AM FEELING LOW

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  1. melisa

    melisa New Member

    I am feeling low and uneasy to maintain some negative emotions. I am going to meet with my husband soon to get some support that I deserve. The way I am feeling the emotions is really hard and it’s really hard on me.

    On the first year of marriage, I felt so weak so I decided not pregnant but when all the things started right I change my mind. It was a really heartbreaking moment that I cannot get pregnant in my life. I went through several tests in last few months but I got the same results. It’s hard to believe that it is happening in my life.
     
  2. RES

    RES Member

    Hello, Melisa! I am very sorry to hear your agony. I can fully understand your pain now. It is not easy to bear every day. Anyway, do not be sad. Think positively because solutions are there. It is through IVF or surrogacy. If you find you want any information about this, you can send me a message.
     
  3. melisa

    melisa New Member

    I want to change and I want to help myself to face the days of infertility. It is not easy to face the infertility withought a community and support. I reallly appreciate the forum to have this kind of members on it.


    Thank you RES
     
  4. Lucy_Hale

    Lucy_Hale New Member

    Hi dear, I am so sorry to hear about your condition! I have gone through the same pain and agony for a long time before I took the decision of IVF with donor eggs! Don't lose hope dear! There are so many women out there facing this situation and so many of them achieving victory over it! If had lost hope, I would not be a mother now! So, hang in there and try exploring options! Look for good clinics and take the right decision with your husband! There are various great clinics that will help you out! Cheer up! everything's going to be just fine!
     
  5. Ssuezy

    Ssuezy Member

    Hi Melisa,
    Take heart. This has happened to a lot of us. Believe me you will be over it before you know. Once you decide to forge on, visit a good fertility clinic like the one I am in in Kiev. The fertility experts there will do a thorough examination. This will include your full medical history in order to establish if there are any underlying medical conditions that can hamper the success of the procedure and risk your life. After that you will be told the best assisted method of conception for you. There are a range of options: IVF, IUI, ICSI and surrogacy. Best wishes
     
  6. Fiercequeen

    Fiercequeen Moderator

    Howdy dear friend? How are things on your end? I sincerely hope this finds you well. I am sorry that you are going through. Unfortunately there is so little I can do to change that. Infertility is a monster that hits everyone... Better said that had the potential to hit anyone. Usually when you least expect it. Now since this is happening to you there is no changing it. What you should do is deal with it the best you can. First of all realize that this is not the end of the world! Just because your going through rainy days, that doesn't mean that the sun disappeared. After you pass this step all that is left to do is to fight this. Probably the hardest thing to do is just this. You have to keep your spirit high and try your best not to let it consume you. I wish you the best dear. I will pray that things get better for you.
     
  7. Pinak

    Pinak New Member

    Hello Melisa. I am sorry for your troubles. I hope you manage to triumph through. Infertility sure can get you down. Not having children is a depressing thought. Especially as you get older. I hope your husband is supportive. You need all the support you can get. Coping with this alone can be extremely hard. Just don’t lose hope dear. I am sure there are many solutions available. What have you tried yet? How about adoption? That is an option even if all else fails. Just hang in there, dear.
     
  8. Lindsay

    Lindsay New Member

    Hi dear. Your story is so sad. Unfortunately, it is the story of so many women. Find comfort in the fact that you are not alone. First of all, take care of yourself. It sounds like you have given up. Please don’t do that. You need to stay strong. Stay healthy. Both physically and mentally. Too much stress can make your condition worse. It can lower your chances of finding a cure. Many women have found a cure. Look for such success stories. Use them to guide you.
     
  9. Simmons

    Simmons New Member

    Hey honey. Don’t be so blue. Infertility can sound like the end of the world but it is not. There are ways around it. Don’t give up. I know of a friend who recently started IVF treatment. I don’t know for sure how successful it is though. I have heard great things about it. Many women swear by it. I suppose it is worth looking into. Other options are there. All you need to do is just keep an eye open. Forums like this can be a great source of information. Ask around here too. Good luck!
     
  10. Norma

    Norma New Member

    Hello dear. No need to feel so dejected. Infertility can be solved. You just need to be brave. Don’t give up hope. I, myself am an infertile woman. Despite that, I am a very happy mother. My husband and I didn’t believe it would be possible for us to have a child, but we did. You might be thinking how we managed it. Well, the answer is surrogacy. I found out about this wonderful clinic abroad. I emailed them for information. I was instantly convinced that this was what I needed. We paid the clinic a visit. Shortly afterward the procedure was initiated. I would love to help you out too. Message me for more details.
     
  11. Fransisca

    Fransisca New Member

    Hello dear, don't be harsh on yourself. Life is full of surprises and you don't know what's there for you. It can be good or bad. You have your husbands support you. Now there are many solutions to infertility. One of them is surrogacy. You just have to find a good clinic which will draw a plan according to your needs and budget. Clinic in Ukraine Kiev is amazing for this. They are providing different packages according to your budget. Email them for consultation. Stay happy and don't over think. As depression also leads to infertility. Sharing your problem on this forum can be good for you as all the members here are very supportive and helpful.
     
  12. Chantel

    Chantel New Member

    Hi Melisa! I am very regretful to hear your pain. I can understand your feeling. It is not easy to face infertility. But you don't need to worry about it. You can defeat this infertility problem with a positive attitude toward life. Stress is the most horrible thing for your body and fertility, Try to relax. I don't know did you go to your doctor for detail checkup. You must do some tests. There are many options for you like IVF and Surrogacy. But I think Surrogacy is the best option for you. Surrogacy gives parents the opportunity to raise a child from birth. I know about the best clinic located in Ukraine from which I have taken my treatment. You may contact them.So don’t worry and enjoy your life. Best Of luck
     
  13. Estrella

    Estrella New Member

    Hello Melissa. I really feel bad for you. You need to stay strong dear. I know infertility is hard to fight against. However, we can win our battle against infertility if we stay courageous. Can I please ask why you are unable to conceive? Are you suffering from some disease? Have you checked with the doctor? Are you taking any sort of treatment? If no, then I have a suggestion for you. You should go for surrogacy. Surrogacy procedure lets you have your genetic baby. I was also able to become a mother through surrogacy. I am sure it will help you too. Ask your husband and family about it. I can provide you with the detailed explanation regarding my experience. First, talk to your family about it. Keep me updated with their response.
     
  14. Kandace

    Kandace New Member

    Hi Melisa. I hope to find you to the best of your health. I feel bad for you. I feel like you are overwhelmed with emotions. I want you to be to stay strong and courageous. You are not supposed to think negative as it will lead you nowhere. You should definitely meet your husband. Husbands are the great support when fighting against infertility. I can suggest you with solutions to infertility. You can for IVF or a surrogacy. I would personally recommend you surrogacy based on my experience. It was hard for me to carry a baby. Therefore, I opted for surrogacy. Now I have my own biological baby. I wish you became a mother very soon. Good luck.
     
  15. Collen

    Collen New Member

    Hi girl. Your story is so dismal. Sadly, it is the narrative of such huge numbers of ladies. Find comfort in the way that you are not the only one. Above all else, deal with yourself. It sounds like you have surrendered. Kindly don't do that. You have to remain strong. You need to be fit both physically and emotionally. A lot of stress can exacerbate your condition. I would advise you to go for surrogacy. It will help you to have your own biological baby. Please think of surrogacy as an option. I am suggesting going for surrogacy because of my experience. Good luck.
     
  16. Celinda

    Celinda New Member

    Hi Melisa. Where is your husband? Don’t you people live together? Anyways, I am happy that you are going to meet him. Husbands are really a great support for such problems. I know it is not easy to accept that you cannot conceive. You need not feel low. You should show some courage. You should think of some infertility procedure of treatment. I myself was unable to carry a baby. I opted for surrogacy procedure to have my baby. I am very satisfied with the surrogacy procedure. There are other infertility treatments too. However, I would not recommend you to go for them, as I have not experienced them. These procedures have made it easier to deal with infertility. You should go for surrogacy. Good luck.
     
  17. Alesia

    Alesia New Member

    Hi Melisa! We all have to go through difficult phases in our life. I want you to let go off all your negative emotions and look on the positive side of the life. There is still a lot of happiness waiting for you in the future that none of us can see but we have to believe in it. You definitely need the support and love of your husband. He is the only closest person to you at the moment. You might have seen a lot of women on this forum that is facing the same problem as yours. Look at me. Totally fertile but still not have a baby. Yeah! That’s true. It is due to my heart disease but I did not cry on my situation all the time. I looked for the solution and I found one. I once discussed my condition with my colleague. I was just expecting some love and support from here but she came up with a solution. She knew about surrogacy and told me to go for it. I asked my husband and he was also so happy to go for it. I contacted a clinic that my colleague told me about. They told me to send my documents and report. I sent all the documents related to my disease. After some, I was called and I went to the clinic. Then they told me that I will have to donate my eggs and my husband will have to donate his sperm to that the clinic can produce an embryo. We are here for 4 days now and the first step has been completed the process. Now it’s time for the clinic to do everything as they have told us. They will also find a surrogate mother for us in 2 to 3 months. I am so excited to meet her as she will bear my pregnancy. Tomorrow I will return back home. I could not wait to share this with someone. I hope this will be useful for you. Thanks.
     
  18. Pheobe412

    Pheobe412 New Member

    What can I say. What could anyone say. It's life. These things are the part of our life. This won't be necessary that everything goes well all the time. Ups and downs are there. What we have to do is go through them. We should have to keep ourselves strong and that way it's going to be good for us. We could do nothing. Don't worry and don't lose hope. Things will sort out soon automatically. Just keep faith in God. Everything is going to be great. Best of luck.
     

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