Should we tell others we are trying to conceive?

Discussion in 'Trying to Conceive' started by Blue Moon, Jan 1, 2015.

  1. Blue Moon

    Blue Moon New Member

    I am very happy that me and my boyfriend are trying to have another baby together. I want to share the news with the world. However, he's concerned about his family's reaction. They did not react well to news of our first child, feeling like we should already be married. However, we made the choice not to get married. We are in a good financial position to expand out family. And, we are as deeply committed as anyone with a ring and a marriage certificate is not going to bind us together more than we are now. I don't know how to make his family understand this. I would love for his family to be part of our happy news when it happens.
     
  2. Beverly

    Beverly New Member

    Though it might seem like a good idea to flaunt your baby making process in front of friends and relatives, you'll want to hold off awhile. What if you get everyone's hopes up for a family addition and then it doesn't happen? Don't celebrate until you see those lines on the pregnancy test strip.
     
  3. Anna D. Moulton

    Anna D. Moulton New Member

    If your boyfriend don't want to reveal it, please don't. Let them know it once you get pregnant. You can share the happy news then.
     
  4. dazzyshahu

    dazzyshahu New Member

    Why not friend? This is completely based on your choice. I can understand your physical and mental stays at this time. I want to suggest you to choose positivity way to overcome this horrible problem in your life. You should give preference to your partner feeling and emotion very well to make appropriate balance in marriage life. You can discuss in detail about this topic to get your solution of your problem. It is very important to convert your dream into reality with the healthy baby gift to make appropriate planning in early stage to provide sufficient nutrition to baby to enjoy maximum benefit in short time period.

    I am one of the lucky women who got this unforgettable opportunity in my life to overcome this horrible problem on behalf of my personal life experience that boost your confidence and clear your doubts in easy and effective way. I want to suggest you to face this horrible problem to remove stress and depression from your life with powerful yoga and meditation. You need not to pay single penny to use this powerful method. You get sudden magic effect on your health within one week to get full energy and relaxation. I am happy to get full support from my husband side. You should not underestimate the power of real bonding with partner. It is time to make suitable plan to convert your imagination into reality. You should choose healthy lifestyle and balanced diet that help you to balance your body hormone level to maintain your period cycle regularly that create win-win situation for you to conceive effectively. You should consume rich iron food to enhance your body hemoglobin level to increase conceiving possibility.
     
  5. RES

    RES Member

    If you want a complete happiness, I think you should follow your parents. Because happiness will never be as happy as it could be when we see people who are important to us did not cheer with us. I mean, there is still sort of sadness and disappointment when we see that they are not truly happy for us. But if it's your choice, no one will hinder you. Maybe time will come that everybody is okay.
     
  6. Gracie Brooks

    Gracie Brooks New Member

    I completely understand your excitement, but if your boyfriend don't want to disclose it yet, then don't do this. Take some time and convince him. And i am sure his family will be happy when they see their grandchild. Good Luck.
     
  7. Fiercequeen

    Fiercequeen Moderator

    I think that is completely up to you. It won't effect the outcome that much. If it was me I wouldn't though. I have 2 main reasons to back this up. The first being the bullshit. Once you tell people you are TTC they will start telling you to do some crazy stuff in order to succeed. Like for example I was told that I should drink 5 liters of milk daily... I kid you not somebody told me that. Like they legit believed that to be a good idea. The second reason being the stress. When everybody knows they expect you to succeed! They will constinuesly ask you what is going on? That will only increass the stress that you will feel. So yeah, but that is me. You get to do whatever you want to!
     

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