Hello fellow Parents, I am 37. I just had a healthy baby girl 7.5mths ago. I was healthy and still am. I am in need of advice, comfort, and help about having a second child. I am an only child and it took me a long time to finally pull the trigger on the 1st baby. I think I waited too long just wanting everything to be perfect and I was worried we weren't ready. Now that I am older I don't have as much time to wait. I'd like to give it a try once she's 1yr. Hopefully my body will be fully recovered. Can you give me advice with the whole truth and nothing but the truth about the pro's and con's of having two children. What it's like to have them closer together as opposed to farther apart. My biggest hesitation is not about whether I want to have another beautiful being. It's more about my doubts as to whether or not I can handle two at the same time and give them the attention they both deserve and need. We are a self-employed family so I help with the business, and the house, and the baby. I live in another country at the moment and don't rely on anyone else, but my husband. He's terrific, but can only do so much because he has to work. I know mother's around the world have done it, and do it. I guess I just need some insightful wisdom for all of you! Thank you so much for reading my post. This is my 1st time on a forum, sorry if it's long-winded
